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Read MoreBecause next week I will have some very exciting news about cyroablation to eliminate breast cancer, I am sharing the story that appeared in local newspapers last year. I wrote this four years after I had the procedure I had agreed to undergo, the first in New Jersey, rather than breast surgery when I was diagnosed with breast cancer
Read MoreMIDDLETOWN - The AAUW Used Book Sale is featuring a 1/2 price sale Saturdays, June 12 and 19 from 9am to 1 pm as part of the end of season book event. The Used Book Store is located in the basement of Old First Church, 69 Kings Hwy and features shelves of books, puzzles, games and numer0us other recreational and educational used items at bargain prices. Most books are regularly priced at $3.00 for hardcover and $2.00 for paperbacks. June also features bargains on children’s books which range from a dime to half a dollar in price. Also featured are summer beach reads in a variety of romance novels. If marked with red dots, they are only ten cents each and include works by authors Nora Roberts, Barbara Delinsky, Linda Lael Miller, Maeve Binchy, Susan Mallory and Debbie Macomber. The sale also features many mystery authors including Danielle Steele, David Balducci and James Patterson. The final events before the Book Sale closes for July and August is the annual Bag Sale scheduled for Saturday, June 26 from 9:00 to 1:00. All books, greeting cards, puzzles, CDs, and DVDs that fit in a grocery bag are available for $5.00 a bag. The Book Sale volunteers will provide the bags, and there is no limit to the number you request.
Read MoreThis is the second running of the series Tracey has going in Jersey Shore Scene, and humbling to see it in print once again. Between the first printing and this one, I also completed The ABCs of Highlands, which is the book on 26 (or more!) or some of the people who are so much a part of Highlands. I also have a blog, https://6001f9f5595f3.site123.me/ thanks to a son and a daughter who continue to encourage me to keep writing.
Read MoreATL. HIGHLANDS – It was Set Day for the Porter home at 35 South Avenue today, and by noontime, voila! A two story, 1,984 square foot home was planted and raised on site. The eventful morning, involving no fewer than ten workers for Baracah Homes of Glenwood, Del. or their subcontractors, began shortly after 7 am, as the semi-trailers rolled up South ave. and progress began. The friendly workers and smooth operation of setting the home on site also brought out a dozen or so neighbors, some bringing out folding chairs to watch the entire process, and all chatting about the excellence of the team, the apparently Amish father and sons all working with other employees, with the ages all ranging from the teenaged sons to experienced workmen. Baracah…the word comes from the Bible and means Blessings…builds a variety of homes of all shapes and sizes in their huge indoor facility on Rout3 13 in Delaware, then brings them by tractor trailer to the prepared ground. A team hooks up a hoist and crane, then, care full of not disturbing any wires or utilities, gently picks up the quarter of a house and settles it neatly in place, one building upon the next. This particular model, The Georgetown, has a Victorian flair, includes three bedrooms and two and a half baths, and features an extended Bay window front. Approximately 40 men are in the Glenwood facility, and it takes them approximately eight to ten days to build each of the units, with each unit of this particular model weighing approximately 35,000 lbs. Baracah retains its own subcontractors to transport the units, ensuring their own attention to excellence. Prior to Set Day, the property owner had to secure a construction permit and a building subcode technical section permit.. The owner has also sought, and already secured, plumbing, electrical and fire permits, all of which have been approved, making it possible for the structure to be installed. The footing had previously been inspected in April and the foundation was inspected in late May. With everything up to date, and the building securely in place, the contractor will continue to contact borough officials for the various inspections that are required in the continuing stages of completing the modular building. Watchful neighbors gave their approval to the excellence of the crew, the smooth transition of all materials, and the rapid start to a beautiful addition to their neighborhood.
Read MoreHIGHLANDS – In the absence of Councilman KL Martin and over the negative vote of Councilwoman Linda Mazzola, three members of the governing body once again introduced the $10 million bonding ordinance for construction of a new borough hall on Route 36 at its meeting Wednesday night. Giving no reason for overriding the vote of the two members necessary to approve the ordinance, council set yet another public hearing on the defeated bond for its June 16 meeting. The ordinance have been introduced in April and following the public hearing few weeks ago, fell to gain the necessary votes for approval, to the applause or residents in attendance at the meeting. While no member of council gave any reason of his own why the defeated code was being re-introduced, Mayor Carolyn Broullon said while she is not speaking for him, she understands Martin did not understand that his negative vote would defeat the ordinance. Law requires that four of the five members must approve a bonding ordinance, and with Martin voting with Mazzola, the original ordinance failed last month. Broullon continued to decline to give a reason for introduction of the new ordinance, in spite of no fewer than three pleas from the public to do so. Nor did Martin give any notice or excuse, nor anyone give any reason why he was not in attendance at the meeting, since he apparently not given any reason that was released to the public in spite of their queries. Although Borough Attorney Brian Chabarek did not weigh in on the question, Broullon said at least twice during the meeting that introducing once again an ordinance that had been defeated only weeks before is not illegal nor improper. No member of the governing body made any comment on a citizen’s suggestion the issue be put on a public referendum. Mazzola, the lone vote at this week’s meeting against the introduction, received applause for her vote but also received no response to her question on why Martin was not in attendance. Broullon interrupted the councilwoman to warn residents in the audience that if “you don’t hold your tongue you will be asked to leave.” During the public portion, former Councilwoman Claudette D’Arrigo likened the introduction of a second $10 million bond over the negative vote to a Presidential election when “you don’t like who was elected, so you hold another election,” a comparison Broullon said was entirely different Resident Michele Diebold said spoke on the re-introduction, saying she was “in total shock” at the governing body disregarding the original vote and opined that “it borders on the illegal,” but at the very least “is not right.” Broullon chided the resident, saying she was speaking “to the room you packed,” and said “bullying behavior” is not necessary, “we are neighbors, we can disagree, but we can have conversation.” But she declined to say why the ordinance was being brought up again. Another resident also challenged Mayor and Council on inaction it took on to other ordinances concerning parking regulations and specific roads set for a public hearing and an introduction, setting public hearings for meetings in June and July. Broullon said an ordinance set for Wednesday’s meeting was put on hold “because we’re still doing some tweaking on it,” and the second ordinance on parking, was set for a later introduction , probably next month, and a July 14 public hearing because “there are still discussions between the chief and attorney>’ Police Chief Robert Burton said later in the meeting he has met with one group of residents concerning parking in the Highland Aven area and invited other residents who wanted to discuss parking to contact him during his regular business hours for discussion and information. “Seek me out,” he said, explaining the Mayor acted to withhold the introduction “for reasons.” While the governing body unanimously approved applying for two grants, the Urban Parks initiative the state introduced this year, as well as Green Acres funding, both to finance the reconstruction and renovations to the Snug Harbor skate park, it conceded to resident Tricia Rivera it did not apply for a recreation improvement grant for which she had provided information a while back. The grants for which the borough is applying could possibly come with a 25 per cent grant, or approximately$150,000 ordaining the remaining $400,000 repayable over 20 years at an interest rate to be determined at the time payments would become due. Broullon said the first step is “to see how much we can get from the state” and pointed out when grants and loans are announced and awarded, the borough will still have the right to reject them if it were in a position not to finance the improvement. Residents are in strong agreement repairs and renovations should be made to the skate park to make it safe and useable, with some describing it as a major and needed improvement for the borough. Several have promised fund raising efforts to finance a part of the overall cost . Council unanimously approved the peddler licensing code to allow for a larger variety of service oriented vendors, approved liquor license renewals for the coming year, eliminated a 2007 ordinance that set parking restrictions on Washington Ave necessary at that time, and now, according to Broullon, no longer necessary, and amending the budget it had approved in April. Each of the proposed, held, or approved resolutions and ordinances as well as approved and cancelled liquor licenses are available to read on the borough of Highlands official website.
Read MoreClosure of Atlantic Highlands Harbor Boat Ramp ATL. HIGHLANDS - Due to ongoing deterioration of the boat launching ramp at the Municipal Yacht Harbor, the DEP has issued an emergency repair permit allowing the harbor to address and repair the ramp to prevent any further damage. The cost to make this permanent repair currently stands at $450,000. Therefore, the ramp will be closed to any launching starting on June 10. It is expected the work will take approximately 10 days to complete barring any issues. As alternatives to launching in Atlantic Highlands, borough administrator Adam Hubeny and the harbor Commission suggests researching the Leonardo State Marina, the Keyport Municipal ramp, Blackberry Park in Oceanport, Rumson Municipal Ramp and Long Branch Municipal Ramp. Search of these locations is available at http://www.state.nj.us/dep/fgw/pdf/boat_ramp_guide.pdf Since it is a matter that requires immediate attention, the Harbor Commission apologizes in advance for any inconvenience and thanks all for your patience, understanding and cooperation.
Read MoreATL HIGHLANDS - It all started back in 1992 when Thomas Stone applied for a position as dispatcher with the Middletown Police Department. He held that position for three years. From there it was police academy, police officer in Atlantic Highlands, lots of other police-related courses, promotion to detective just days before 9/11, 2001. Next it was Sergeant and back to Patrol duty for another three years, then promotion to Detective Sergeant, and finally, two years ago, Captain of the Atlantic Highlands Police Department. And last week on Friday, May 28, Capt. Thomas Stone did a formal walk-out of police headquarters to the cheers accolades and shouts of thanks, praise and admiration. That’s when he became Capt. Tom Stone retired, new civilian, Tom Stone. It’s been a wonderful 31 years and seven months, the amiable, laid back, yet very proper police officer said. Looking back, there’s no doubt 9-11 was the worst, as the new detective worked alongside his fellow law enforcement officers from this borough and so many other places to help the frightened, ash-covered and shocked people from all over the tri-state area as Sea Streak helped them escape the horrors of New York and dropped them off at the municipal yacht harbor where these officers and so many other volunteers helped them find means to get to their own homes. “We had to coordinate all of this,” he recalls, “even though even we didn’t know what was going on in the beginning. I’m just happy I work with such a great team and we could pull together and get everyone through it.” There are some sad times, Stone recalls, reluctant to talk about it until pressed. Yes, there have been times he has had to make arrests, times it has cost him a friendship. Times he has had to comfort a family after a death or serious accident, but times he was happy to be there to give the aid and solace he could offer. And there are wonderfully happy times to remember as well. There are those three deliveries of healthy little babies he was there to assist for, there were the times he could take satisfaction in how he could talk down a dangerous situation and avoid it becoming more dangerous or possibly fatal. There were the times he knew he made a difference. That’s it, Stone smiles in recall, that’s the best thing about being a police officer. “You know you’re there to help, to make a difference, but when you see it really happening, ‘holy mackerel!’ then it hits you. And you can feel good.” One of those times was with a teen, “a good kid, too,” who got in a bit of trouble…”nothing serious, just you know, kid stuff!” Tom was there to help out. That kid returned the favor another day, when Tom was at a scene helping with an injured person. The teen helped him lift the person, and Tom, nonchalantly suggested he join the first aid. He did, became a great volunteer, got on with his life, and today, ..and here Tom looks both proud and happy….”he’s the principal of a large school!” The first aid squad is another passion in this officer’s life. In fact, any volunteer agency that helps people is an important part of his life. Growing up in Leonardo, he followed his dad’s example and was on the Leonardo First Aid Squad. That was back in 1984. Over the years, he also served seven different terms as Captain of the squad. Then he was assistant EMS Chief for Middletown Township. Now he’s a life member of the squad and has been an EMT as well since 1986. At the same time, Tom served with the Navesink Fire Company and of course, captain twice, and now a life member. “My dad did it, my older brother Cal did it,” I had great examples to follow,” the officer said. Married to Alisa, a nurse also known for her generous volunteerism and expertise….they met when she was an ER nurse and he brought in accident patients… Stone has a stepson, Matt, of whom he’s very proud, and a teenage daughter Casey, on whom he unabashedly admits he dotes. “Yes, I spend a lot of time with her, yes, I love her company, and yes she’s pretty wonderful. But she knows I’m a disciplinarian as well, and I’m there with her as her father, not as a friend who lets her get away with anything.” The smiles on Casey’s face show he’s telling the truth, and she likes it that way. Looking back, besides his parents and their leadership, Tom said he had discipline, leadership skills and education honed into him at MAST, the Sandy Hook high school where all students are members of the NJROTC. As one of the first classes to attend all four years at the high school, Stone said he learned well and also developed strong friendships. Some of those friends were there Friday when he did his final walkout at headquarters. He has enjoyed the FBI courses he has taken, together with Homeland Security education, and all the courses the local department offers its officers. He loved being juvenile officer, a position he first started 20 years ago, and loved working with the pre-teens in the library programs that were offered. There’s no doubt police work has its ups and downs, with no advance warning of which would be the up or down days, and policy and departmental procedures and regulations have changed greatly in all levels of law enforcement over the years. “But you learn, you go with it, and you do your best.” What’s in the future for this very popular police captain? “I’m not looking that far ahead,” he grins, “I want to spend the summer getting my health back…..police work is not perfect for blood pressure….I want to get some stress out of my life, I want to take my daughter to Florida and spend time with my wife.” I’ll revisit my future in the fall and look at some of the offers I’ve had for future employment.” But for this time, at least this month, Captain Stone can bask in the accolades showered on him by the many local residents who knew him as a respected officer, a good friend, and an honest and fair judge of everyone.
Read MoreMANALAPAN – It will be Lighthouse Week at the Monmouth County Library when three programs concerning lighthouses and shore points will be presented once again by popular request. Beginning Tuesday, June 22, historian Nicholas Wood’s presentation of the Navesink Twin Lights at Highlands will be presented once again virtually, this time at 7 p.m. Wood, who is the resource interpretive in Historic Resources of the Twin Lights, is with the NJ Division of Parks and Forestry and will highlight some of the historic events in and around Highlands, where the historic lighthouse is situated. On Wednesday, June 23, historian Mary Rasa, who worked as museum curator as well as park ranger for the National Park Service for nearly two decades, will present a program on women lighthouse keepers, including one who served locally and was a Monmouth County resident. Rasa explores the unique government field that was one of the first to be open to women. Thursday, June 24, naturalist Jim Peck will present the stories of the barrier beaches and bay, at Sandy Hook as well as Cape May and Island Beach State Park. Peck was the Education Director for the American Littoral Society and has spent years educating the public on the fragility of the unique coastline along New Jersey. Each of the programs is available to click and view on the Library’s website and all are offered free of charge. Internet access is required. Visit MonmouthCountyLib.org and scroll to the Upcoming Events column to read information on how to access the programs. “The staff at our Monmouth County Library has done an outstanding job throughout the Covid pandemic,” said County Commission Lillian G. Burry, the county liaison to the Library. “They have offered each of these programs virtually in the past few months, and are presenting them once again because there have been so many requests. These three programs, highlighting all that is wonderful and historic about our coastline, will be presented on consecutive nights and all will begin at 7 p.m. It is an excellent time to learn more about what we have right here on our own shoreline.” For information on all programs and hours at the Monmouth County library and each of its branches, visit the library website at www.MonmouthCountyLib.org.
Read MoreManalapan – Rutgers Master Gardener Jane Zysk will present a program I “Irresistible Irises” in a virtual presentation offered by the Monmouth County Library. The program will be presented June 3 at 3 p.m. and will be presented on Cisco Webex free of charge. Registration for the internet accessed program is free, and registration is through the Library’s Upcoming Events column. The Upcoming Events program can be accessed at www.MonmouthCountyLib.org. Registrants will receive information via e-mail on how to access the discussion and the link will be e-mailed June 2 in late afternoon. All registration must be complete by noon June.2. Zysk will demonstrate the best planting sites and techniques for iris, and include tips on maintaining this species of flowering plant. Known for its showy flowers, the plant is named for the Greek goodness of the rainbow, Iris, and includes more than 250 species of blooms and colors. For more information on this and all programs offered by the Monmouth County library, as well as the times of openings for each of the headquarters and branch libraries, visit the library site at MonmouthCountyLib.org.
Read MoreCOLTS NECK – President Thomas Jefferson made his annual visit to the Cedar Drive School recently, the school’s first performance since the restrictions for Covid-19 began. Jefferson, portrayed by Steve Edenbo of the American Historical Theatre in Philadelphia, was both timely and historic in his presentation, wearing a mask and speaking to the students on the epidemic diseases during the 18 and 19th centuries, yellow fever and smallpox, and how those diseases impacted the residents of the colonies. Jefferson greeted students from the school in two separate sessions, and omitted his usual physical interaction with students because of the Covid regulations. Students all wore masks and were socially distanced from each other for the presentation in the school auditorium. County Commissioner Lillian Burry, former Mayor of Colts Neck, annually invite Edenbo to make his presentations for the student body, faculty members and guests. “Jefferson was an outstanding leader in his own time,” Burry said, “as well as continuing to be a role model not only for his writings, his politics, and his contributions to forming the new nation of the United States, but also because of his love of learning, his affection for books, and his musical talents and abilities. Jefferson will never go out of style, in my opinion.”
Read MoreATL. HIGHLANDS – Students at MAST, the Marine Academy of Science and Technology at Sandy Hook, and members and leaders of Boy Scout and cub troops from Rumson joined with American Legion Post 141 members and friends to replace disintegrated American flags on the graves of veterans at Bayview Cemetery Saturday. “We are so appreciative of the cadets and scouts who turn out every year to take on this duty,” said Post Commander Peter Doyle. “ It is a large undertaking, considering this historic cemetery has graves dating back to the Revolutionary War, and at least one recognition of a Congressional Medal of Honor recipient,” he said. “Seeing these young patriots get up early on a Saturday morning to not only remove the faded flags but replace them with bright red, white and blue is proof that patriotism is still very much alive. CDR Tracie Smith-Yeoman, Senior Naval Science Instructor at MAST , said “we have only been doing this for perhaps four years, but we look forward to doing it for many more years in the future. The cadets volunteer because they are always looking for community service opportunities, and they feel very strongly about honoring our veterans,” the retired Naval Commander said. “Once a cadet does it the first time, he or she will do it again and again, because it is such a wonderful experience.” She added it seems strange to say the cadets enjoy the activity of putting flags on graves, “but it is such a beautiful cemetery with veterans' graves dating back to the Revolutionary war. The cadets get very interested in reading the names and the dates and the wars these men and women served in. I think they also like to learn about how the government takes care of veterans with the grave markers that veterans are entitled to receive.” Smith-Yeoman said that some cadets will serve in the military themselves, and she feels they like to take care of the veterans that came before them “in the hopes that someday some high school students will care for their graves in the same manner.” Assistant Scoutmaster James Martin of Troop 201 and Cubmaster of Pack 11, was present with Scout Graeme Martin and Cub Asher Martin for the annual flag placements and indicated his scouts, who have been part of the tradition for several years, similar to the high school cadets, enjoy being able to do something for the community and the veterans, and do read the names of the deceased and the wars in which they have served. The scouts also take all the damaged and faded flags, remove them from their wooden sticks, and dispose of them in a ritualistic flag burning ceremony. Pictured: Back row l to r: Cadet Erin White, Cadet Katherine Martyn, Cadet John Halsall, Cadet James Treshock, Cadet Jake Lindmark, Cadet Hannah Echols, Cadet Tessa Campolattaro, and Cadet Bradley Lau. Front row l to r: Cadet Mary Kate Welch, Cadet Mae Wooley, Cadet Mary Catherine Harvey, and Cadet Paige Lane
Read MoreAtl. Highlands: Seventeen students at the Atlantic Highlands Elementary School were inducted into the National Elementary Honor Society at the first public meeting in the school since the start of the Covid-19 pandemic. The National Elementary Honor Society began in the tri-County District through the efforts of Superintendent Dr. Susan Compton shortly after the NEHS was established in 2008 by the ¬(NAESP). The Society recognizes students in both public and nonpublic elementary schools for their outstanding academic achievement and demonstrated personal responsibility. Through NEHS, students provide meaningful service to the school and community and develop essential leadership skills. NEHS supports these purposes by strengthening the lives of our nation’s elementary students and the schools in which they are enrolled. By starting a chapter, elementary schools create a method for acknowledging achievement and focus on the needs of the total child. In addition, NEHS provides information and resources to enhance the culture of achievement in the whole school, not just that of a select few. As the nation’s newest student recognition program, NEHS joins the New Jersey Honor Society - (NJHS) and the National Honor Society, the nation’s two oldest and largest student recognition programs, in creating a continuum of excellence being established throughout the elementary, middle, and high school education community. Both fifth and sixth grade students were inducted in the ceremony this year, because closures prevented an event last school year. Sixth grade students, the 2020 recipients of the honor are Martha Domanski, Dalila Ardolino, Leah Curry, Sloane Dougherty, Colin Drew, Theo Haggard, Jack Mahoney, Emilija Mednis and Leora Zilber. The 2021 recipients, all fifth grade students, are Charlotte Cannamela, Jonathan Gilpatrick, Naomi Vidal, Veronica Walsh, Benjamin Eitreim, Addison Kosakowski, William Seuffert and J.D. Zertuche. Participating in the program with Dr. Compton were Principal Lori Skibinski, Interim Tri-District Director of Curriculum and Instruction Eva Raleigh, and Tri-District Supervisor of Special Services Sam Angona together with the Board of Education for the Atlantic Highlands school district.t.
Read MoreSHREWSBURY – The highly popular and broadly acclaimed Wedding Dress Exhibit of the Shrewsbury Historical Society is back again. Beginning Saturday, May 29, and continuing on Sunday, May 30 and Monday, May 31, Memorial Day weekend, the exhibit at the Shrewsbury Historical Society, 419 Sycamore Ave., will be open from noon to 4 p.m. This Exhibition will include the historic and modern gowns that were on exhibit last year, as well as an additional eight new gowns, bringing the total of wedding dresses on display to 28. The exhibit will also include a number of bridal-related items and clothes and photographs, including some of Historical Society members. Guests will also have the opportunity visit the second floor East Room for a second exhibit of unique and memorable items from the Borden Estate as well as a stained glass window once a fixture at the Old Brick Reformed Church in Marlboro “The volunteers in our Society are very happy to continue and add to this very popular exhibit,” said Society President Donald Burden. “The public has shown a great interest, not only in the gowns and their personal histories, but also in the unique way in which each is being displayed. We are happy to welcome those who have never seen the exhibit before to stop in, and feel certain those who have already seen the original exhibit will be delighted with the new and exciting articles we have added, through the generosity of so many preservationists.,” Burden said. There is no entry fee for the Exhibition, however, donations are always gratefully accepted to continue the maintenance and upkeeps of the Society building. The exhibition room will be open twice a week through June and July on Thursdays from 2 to 4 p.m., and on Saturdays, from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Society volunteers will also make the room available for special appointments by calling 732-530-7374.
Read MoreHIGHLANDS – In the end, it was not being able to trust FEMA that defeated the proposed $10 million bonding order to build a new borough hall on the Navesink Ave. site between Miller St and Valley Ave., with Councilmembers KL Martin and Linda Mazzola listening to residents at Thursday’s meeting of the Mayor and Council. Although Mayor Carolyn Broullon, and councilmembers Joann Olszewski and Donald Melnyk continued to support a bonding issue in the hopes of receiving approximately $5 million from FEMA to offset the projected cost to taxpayers for future years, both Martin and Mazzola said it was not a wise business decision and said they could not in right conscience authorize the bond issue. With four votes required for bond issues, the ordinance was killed and plans for the proposed building are still up in the air. Martin, in his first vote in opposition to the mayor, said that as the son of a veteran and as a person who lost several family members in Hurricane Katrina, he distrusts FEMA, saying “they’re not always good about their word….I don’t trust FEMA.” The councilman added that when he first sought office last year, he did it “with the people in mind, not what I wanted,” indicating he listened to the people who spoke during the public hearing and the vast majority were opposed to the ordinance. He added that “ I want what is best for the town, I believe in something..” and said he could not approve a code that more than half the people in the borough appear to be against. Mazzola, the only councilmember who consistently questions council actions before voting on any issue, said that while she is in favor of the building, and has supported it for three years, while she recognizes the need for it and the need for the employees who provide “wonderful services” to residents to have better accommodations, “I don’t trust FEMA,” adding that the fact FEMA officials refuse to confirm in writing they indeed will grant $4.5 million to the borough for the building, “they put up a red flag” by not guaranteeing it in writing, or guaranteeing that if a grant now would be altered to become a loan that would have to be repaid sometimes in the future. Only Police Chief Robert Burton, speaking as both a taxpaying citizen and the chief of police, showed any support for the bond issue, citing primarily that he wants “a nice office, “ and “my employees deserve a building.” He invited residents to come down to the trailer that houses the police department and “smell the cat urine” from under the trailer and see the small and inadequate office space in which all employees work. Burton praised the new building , describing it as “nothing lavish,” and containing no storage space. He pointed out further delays will mean higher building costs, saying a sheet of plywood purchased for the Middletown Township Hall under construction costs $110. While several residents questioned the business sense of relying on FEMA’s grant without anything in writing, a fact confirmed by borough administrator Michael Muscillo, several asked the Council to pursue alternate options, including shared services with other municipalities for law enforcement facilities such as the court room and jail cells, to lessen the cost of state mandated facilities for new municipal construction. One resident suggested investigating the possibility of both public and private partnerships to reduce costs, or adding a floor to the building for either county or other uses so building costs could be shared. There was no indication following the vote that defeated the measure what actions the borough council may take or when they might introduce another ordinance more in keeping with the will of the people. Council did unanimously approve an amendment to what Broullon termed an “antiquated ordinance that did not allow you to do anything on Sundays” to permit Bingo games on Sundays. However, no member of council made it clear whether they have been any applications for Sunday Bingo licenses or the need to amend it at the same meeting at the $10 million bond issue or the introduction of seven other ordinances.
Read MoreThere will be plenty more photos on Facebook, I’m sure, but for starters, these three magnificent ladies and leaders were cheered, loved, and admired last night at the Serena DiMaso for Assembly event at the Shore Casino. Can’t say enough about the very enthusiastic crowd who were there to ensure Serena she has their backing in the primary election and to reiterate to her that they really appreciate everything she has done in her previous terms in the Assembly, something they are positive she will continue in her next term. Love our former Sheriff, former Lieutenant Governor, who reminded all the ladies present just how formidable they are, in spite of some powers who want to be rid of formidable and intelligent ladies. Seeing the trio together was living proof of how much women have done for the county and state, and that’s not even counting the other strong women in office who were there, including both Atlantic Highlands Mayor Loretta Gluckstein and Highlands Councilwoman Linda Mazzola, a lady who by the way, every meeting shows she can stand up for what she believes is right, regardless of whether other elected officials support her. She’s made it clear, and Councilman Martin joined her this week as well, in reiterating loud and clear they indeed listen to the people and agree they’re there to do what the people want, not necessarily what they want. A very wise attorney in Highlands also made it clear that the Government is there for the people, not the people there to do the will of the government. Former Councilwoman Claudette D’Arrigo was also there representing Highlands, another lady who while she might not be in office at the present time, is so formidable and such a great researcher and driver that Highlands will be putting her back on Council before you know it. But back to the DiMaso event at the Shore Casino. Wonderful to see old friends get together, people who haven’t seen each other from childhood days in New York discover they’re close neighbors and share the same mature and intelligent political beliefs, as well as wonderful friends from outside the district who know and love Serena and everything she stands for. And it was sheer delight to let everyone see not only how generous and perfect the Sweeney family is in running their Shore Casino, but being able to brag that these folks are true friends who can’t do enough to make everyone feel happy, content, and dear God, well fed! As one person put it, “At the Casino, they put out food like you haven’t eaten in six months, there’s so much of it!” And of course, it’s top quality, prepared by elegant and superior chefs, and always served piping hot or delightfully chilled, as it should be. There are many restaurants that are terrific, and we’re blessed and well fed to have them here in the Bayshore, but nothing will ever come up to the perfect blend of excellent food, friendly staff, spectacular setting, and down right friendliness of Bernie, Kathleen, Jay and everyone on the staff. Jay is pretty spectacular, by the way, and great to see him a vital part of the many upcoming celebrations at the Casino.
Read MoreATL. HIGHLANDS – The VNA, Visting Nurses Association is joining forces with First Call PPE, First Ave., to offer vaccines and on-site antigen tests at the Municipal Yacht Harbor Saturday, from 9 a.m. to noon. The Johnson & Johnson VAX, one shot vaccine, will be administered at the tennis court parking lot behind the Shore Casino to all interested persons. Antigen test to confirm a person does not currently have Covid 19, and antibody tests, to confirm the presence of antibodies from a previous infection or vaccination, will also be offered at the site Saturday morning. Persons wishing to be vaccinated must bring a photo id and insurance card, if they have insurance, only photo ID is necessary for anyone without insurance coverage. In either case, there is no charge for either the vaccine or the testing. Since it will be the Johnson and Johnson vaccine being administered, there is no need for a second shot. First Call PPP, which opened its business on First Avenue last year and also offered services at no cost for borough emergency equipment, will also provide free sanitizer, N95 masks and wipes Saturday, and will be assisting VNA personnel with EMT staff. The company will be providing the rapid antigen testing, while the VNA will be providing the vaccine. The event is open to all ages from two years of age and up for Covid testing, and 18 years and older for the vaccine. The VNA Health Group is the state’s largest and most trusted not-for-profit provider of home health, visiting physicians, hospice and community-based care. Their newly formed research and innovation institutes are advancing new models of care while strong partnerships with the region’s leading health systems bring together a network of clinical expertise focused on helping achieve best level of health for all. “We are happy to be able to partner with VNA and offer this service to the people of this area, “ said Dave Wickersham, president of First Call. “It is important for everyone to be vaccinated and to be part of the strong community that will bring us all back to healthy and safe conditions so we can look forward to working and enjoying all our area has to offer.” Wickersham also expressed thanks to the Mayor and Council, the Harbor Commission and Borough Administrator Adam Hubeny for their support and assistance in enabling this program to be conducted Saturday.
Read MoreATL. HIGHLANDS – In its school year presentation of monthly Champions exhibiting the practices of the letters used to spell CHAMPION, the local Board of Education named the Champions of Optimism at Tuesday’s meeting of the Board of Education. Each month, a letter from the word Champion highlights a specific habit and characteristic that make a champion, and teachers throughout the kindergarten through sixth grade classes cite specific students for great achievements in that field. This month, the board highlighted the next to last letter, O, epitomizing optimism. Tri-school Administrator Dr. Susan Compton congratulated each of the students and reminded them that “A champion has vision. A champion dreams of things that haven't been and believes they are possible. A champion says, "I can.". Students demonstrating optimism show hopefulness and confidence about the successful outcome of something.” Other characteristics highlighted in earlier months were for citizenship, heroism, advocacy, mentorship, passion and innovation. Next month, students will be cited for nobility for demonstrating honesty, courage and kindness, together with strong character. This month’s Optimists were praised for showing everything from bright smiles and goal setting, friendship and positive attitudes, as well as never giving up, and seeing the bright side of a situation. They include kindergarten students Jack Coyle and Olivia O’Donnell, first graders Demiana Bradley, Valentina Vicens-Durzo and Charlotte Gallagher; second grade students Joseph Gannon, Greta Chabak, and Hayden Bifulco, third grader students Piper Dougherty, and Aubriella Romano. Fourth grade optimists are Maria Durazo, Benjamin Eittreim, Cathryn Seuffert and Finley Murphy, whose teacher described her as “a ray of sunshine and a student who “chooses to be happy.” Fifth grade Champions of Optimism are Samantha Morrisy, Aydin Colton, described as “a rainbow in a storm,” Philip Weiss-Doist, with a “smile that can’t be hidden” and Tara Weiss-Doust and LJ McKeon. Sixth grade Champions are Addison Krzycki, John Verange, Jack Burton, Max Schmoll and Drew Jaccodene. Principal Lori Skibinski who made the presentations and read the letters from each teacher making the nominations, praised all the students, especially recognizing the difficult times students have faced with virtual and in-class learning during the pandemic.
Read MoreSHREWSBURY - Terming the sculpture by Franco Minervini “Fantastic,” Ted Raffetto told a crowd at the Monmouth County Library’s Eastern Branch that his uncle Charles Raffetto would be thrilled at the visual portrayal of Endless Possibilities through Reading. Charles Raffetto, who died in August, 2016 at age 89, bequeathed funds in his will to the library because of his own appreciation of libraries and love of reading during his lifetime. A native of Manasquan, one of five children, he was a graduate of Manasquan High School in 1944, and a Navy veteran before earning a degree from Villanova University, the earning a doctorate in medicine. Raffetto later changed his career to work in the US Post Office because of his love for his hometown and Monmouth County, and dedicated his free time to reading and gardening. His only remaining sibling, Elvira Raffetto, and most of his 16 nephews and nieces, together with several great nieces and nephews, were in attendance at the outdoor ceremony in front of the sculpture on the Route 35 side of the library. Monmouth County Commissioner Lillian G. Burry, the county liaison to the Library Commission, and a strong advocate of the sculpture, introduced both the donor’s nephew and Minervini, also in attendance at the event. Minervini is well known internationally, but most appreciated in Monmouth County for his sculpture in the Memorial Garden at Mount Mitchill, Atlantic Highlands, constructed after 9-11 and included a piece of the World Trade Center in the talons of an eagle. Traveling from his home in New York for the event, Minervini said he was pleased with the presentation of the sculpture in a library garden setting and was happy to be there to meet the Raffetto family. Library Commission Chairman Nancy Grebelja was master of ceremonies for the event, and recognized both current library members as well as past members in attendance who had worked on the committee to decide the sculpture as a fitting memorial to Raffetto’s wishes. Former Library Commission Chair Renee B. Swartz who spearheaded the library for more than half a century from its formative years until two years ago, as well as former Shrewsbury Mayor and former Library Commissioner Donald Burden, former Atlantic Highlands councilman Peter Doyle and Grace Abramov, were commended together with current members, former Freehold Township Mayor Barbara McMorrow, Atlantic Highlands Councilman Brian Boms, Marcy McMullen, Mary Ann Musich, and former Union Beach Councilman Frank A. Wells, all of whom approved the sculpture as a fitting tribute to its donor and the many advantages the library offers to everyone. In introducing Swartz, who she described as “a grand lady, you’ve been here right from the beginning,” Burry presented her with a bouquet of flowers for her years of volunteer service and leadership. Swartz, who is currently chairperson of the NJ Center for the Book, an affiliate of the Center for the Book at the Library of Congress, presented a plaque from the Center to Grbelja, Burry and Library Director Judith Tolchin, with the Library of Congress’ recognition of the Eastern Branch Library being a landmark learning institution for half a century. Swartz praised both the staff and the commission for the growth and broad range of academia, recreation, education, science, and enjoyment the library gives on a daily basis to the residents of Monmouth County. Burry, who has been the liaison from the county to the library throughout her continuing service as a county commissioner and former Director, noted the success of the library, as in any successful venture, depends on a team working together, something that is always evident within the library through its employees, director, and the library commission. Boy Scouts of Shrewsbury Troop 50 presented colors for the event Saturday, and former County Clerk M. Claire French led the attendees in the Pledge of Allegiance. The Rev. Scott Brown of the Colts Neck Reformed Church, gave the invocation. Grebelja introduced may of the guests present for the event, including, in addition to Commissioner Burry, other county commissioners present Directors Thomas Arnone, Susan Kiley, Nick DiRocco and Ross Licitra. Music for the event was provided by guitarist and song writer Michael Wells of Union Beach.
Read MoreMIDDLETOWN – “I’m thrilled to be coming back, it’s almost like coming home,” said Andrew Kahane, who recently was named administrator for the second time of the Care One at King James Care Center facility on Route 36. The sign on his desk tells the story as well: “Living the Dream.” Kahane is replacing Meagan Yorks, who has been administrator here since January 2020. Meagan has moved to another Care One facility but will always have King James close to her heart. Kahane is returning to this area after serving as Administrator since 2020 at CareOne at East Brunswick, and said he was happy to greet so many residents and employees upon his return who were here during his first administrative appointment at this facility. “It really is like coming home,” he said, “ here they always seem like one family, and both residents and employees are proud of that.” A native of Bergen County, Kahane began his career in care centers after earning a degree in communications from William Patterson College and working in a family printing business in Newark, Delaware. He began his care in Environmental Services supervision, working his way to Assistant Administrator in a skilled nursing facility and earning his Licensed Nursing Home Administrator License several years ago. Coming back to Care One here is particularly great, he said, since Yorks was an outstanding administrator, and handled the new parameters, regulations and changes brought on by Covid restrictions and mandates to perfection. “While so many things had to be changed, added, and unfortunately, things like visitation had to be restricted, it has been difficult on residents,” he said. “However, in speaking with residents since I returned, they praised Meagan, and have been very understanding of the changes that were essential.” Kahane praised the employees for their outstanding efforts, noting the Care Center is Covid-free and can now permit indoor visitation and outdoor visitation bringing residents and loved ones together again. The COVID-19 vaccine has been offered to all residents and employees and recently, the care center was able to close its “Red Zone,” the wing reserved for COVID patients, another positive sign that the steps taken in the fight against a virus that has affected so many lives are working. The staff and residents remain vigilant in their infection control practices to maintain the safety and well- being of all at the center. Looking to the future, the administrator said he is at first looking towards the next step in the state-mandated Covid regulations and the hopefully soon full return to all the outdoor activities the residents have enjoyed in the past. “Our residents have not been able to have shopping trips, visits to the horse farm and the many other activities the activities department plans, and we are hopeful they can be resumed shortly,” Kahane said. “It will be great to get back to normal,” he added, “although I’m not sure any of us knows what getting back to normal is.” He is also looking forward to working once again with the community and offering all the community connected activities the residents enjoy, including community recreational programs and family dinners.
Read MoreMIDDLETOWN – Flowers, special desserts and inside visitation are all featured at the King James Care Center honoring all residents who are mothers, grandmothers, and great grandmothers this Sunday, said Activities Director Karen Cohen. “We’re so happy to be able to make this Mother’s Day so festive for our residents,” Cohen said, in noting that with no Covid cases at the Center, either among staff or residents, inside visitation as well as outside visitation are available Sunday during regular visiting hours. Family members must make reservations for the visits, the director continued, in order to be certain the caregivers at the Center can meet everyone’s needs and ensure Covid-free environments and space limitations. Reservations can be made simply by calling the care center at 732-291-3400, for visitation between 10 a.m. and noon and 2 to 4 p.m. Sunday. Residents have the option of outside visitation, weather permitting, or inside with safe distances. Each of the honored residents will be presented with flowers, Cohen said, and all will be able to enjoy festive desserts and beverage in the Center’s main dining room. Residents get to celebrate Mothers' Day all week with a variety of activities and special events, since it also is Nurses and Skilled Nurses Week and the Activities Department recognizes their staff with special events to honor all the nurses and skilled staff who are employed at King James. Beginning this Thursday the celebration week include Thirsty Thursday, which will feature root beer floats and a raffle basket for staff, chocolate covered strawberries and sparkling cider on May 7, and Ice Cream Social , May 10, a chocolate fountain on May 12, Bingo Bingo and more Bingo the following day, all activities for both staff and residents, and to complete the week of activities, a BBQ honoring all residents and staff on May 14. “It is wonderful to be here Sunday to see our residents enjoy this special day,” said Andrews Kahane, care center administrator. “Our staff at all levels works so hard to ensure a Covid-free environment and entertaining recreational activities for our residents all the time. And our residents certainly always show their appreciation and tell me how much they enjoy it. But Mother’s Day is really so special for so many of the residents that it is nice to see we are able to offer so much visitation and still feel confident our residents are healthy and safe.”
Read MoreMIDDLETOWN - May specials at the AAUW Northern Monmouth County Branch Used Book Sale include 50% off mysteries, sports, biographies and travel, volunteers at the popular used book shop announced. Books are regularly priced at $3.00 for hardcover and $2.00 for paperbacks. Children’s books are a bargain at 10 to 50 cents each! There is also a large inventory of DVD’s and Children’s books. The sale is open every Saturday from 9-1 pm at the Old First Church, 69 Kings Highway. Regular Saturday hours are 9 am to 1 pm, through the last Saturday in June (excluding major holidays). Covid protocols remain in place. For information regarding donations please refer to the Branch website aauw-nj-nmcb.org or by calling 732-275-2237. Proceeds from the AAUW Used Book Sale provide university and college scholarships for women and girls and support local projects such as promoting STEM education for middle school girls.
Read MoreHIGHLANDS – Mayor and Council for the second time introduced the $10 million bonding ordinance to finance construction of its long-planned borough hall on Route 36 at Wednesday’s meeting. But if all goes as hoped, the amount to be raised by bond is $4,750,000, which means an increase in the tax rate at about half of what was originally predicted. Borough finance office Pat DeBlasio reported he and the administrator have been working with FEMA and while they have no guarantee at this point, feel certain that approximately $5 million in FEMA funds will be authorized. If that happens as expected, DeBlasio said, the borough tax rate to finance the new construction would only increase about half of the predicted seven cents, or approximately four cents. Public hearing on the ordinance is scheduled for the May 19 meeting. Prior to introducing the budget for the municipal building construction, Council also approved refunding the Atlantic Highlands/Highlands Regional Sewer Authority Bonds of $2.750 million, with DeBlasio saying timing is right for the move, necessary prior to bonding for the borough hall, since the re-bonding will be at a lower interest rate. That public hearing is also set for May 19. Council also approved its municipal budget for 2020, after only one person spoke, and no one objected during the public hearing. In a series of questions posed at determining many line items in the budget, which is expected to be reduced the tax rate by one cent, Kim Skorka asked why less funding is included for a grant writer to continue searching for grants available to the borough and told the governing body she does not feel they are searching as well as they could for outside sources to offset costs. Skorka also questioned if the governing body has had any conversations concerning the state analysis of police departments as she has questioned in previous meetings. In other business, Council introduced an ordinance which would allow Bingo on Sundays, a move Mayor Carolyn Bouillon said would remove the antiquated laws on Sunday games, and set the public hearing for the May 19 meeting. Currently no local non-profit organizations hold Bingo games in the borough. Mayor and Council also continued its agreement with the Coast Guard station at Sandy Hook for first responder assistance to the military installation in fire and safety emergencies. Council also approved several resolutions to provide more recreational equipment at borough parks, including a Sport Court at Snug Harbor, playground equipment for Huddy, Snug Harbor and Veterans Memorial parks, as well as playground rubber mulch. Mayor Broullon announced that beginning with the May 19 council meeting, all municipal meetings will be held in person and none will be held on Zoom. Nancy Messina was sworn in as a member of the Highlands Housing Authority. A borough wide garage sale will be held May 22 from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Registration is available until May 18 by visiting the borough website or contacting borough hall. The borough’s annual Memorial Day parade will be held May 29 at 11 a.m., co-sponsored by American Legion Post 143 and the Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 6902, the two veterans post within the borough.
Read MoreATL. HIGHLANDS - Incumbent Councilman James Murphy and former Army Captain Ellen O’Dwyer are seeking the two seats on borough council to be decided in this year’s election and will appear on the ballot in the Republican primary June 6. Unopposed in the June primary, they will face newcomer Brian Dougherty as the only Democrat candidate for the two seats to be filled in the November election. Councilman Roy Dellosso has indicated he will not seek another term. A third generation resident of Atlantic Highlands, and raising his three children as the fourth, Councilman James Murphy has been active in the community all his adult life. Serving as council president and police commissioner this year, he has been on the governing body three years and is seeking his second term. Murphy is a former member of the planning and zoning board, and the local Board of Education where his wife, Molly, currently serves. He is also a member of the original Board of Trustees for the borough’s Sailing Education program, an officer in the Office of Emergency Management, member of the Mother Teresa School Acquisition Task force, and Monmouth County Stigma Free subcommittee member for the Mental Health First Aid calendar of events. He is certified with green and Lean belt in Six Sigma, a business methodology for process improvement. Murphy also served as chair of the borough’s Department of Public Works and recently became a member of the local First Aid Squad. He has been on the Recreation committee for more than ten years, and serves as basketball, soccer and Little League coach At St. Agnes church, he is an usher and Eucharistic minister. He is also a third degree member of the Vincent T. Lombardi Council of the Knights of Columbus in Middletown. Murphy is a sales and branch manager, a home loan officer and first time home buyer specialist. He married his elementary school sweetheart, Molly, and the couple live on South ave. with their three children. Murphy said he is seeking a second term “because my work is not done yet. Right now, Atlantic Highlands needs strong leadership to guide us through this ever changing time. We have major changes coming down the pike, changes that will sculpt the future of our community. I’m here to continue leadership necessary to secure our prosperous future.” The councilman said the biggest problems of today are the same as years past, property and school taxes, infrastructure, and community involvement. “More and more we see neighbors arguing with neighbors, calling in to council meetings to shame, complain, and attack members of our governing body; fingers are increasingly being pointed outwardly and people’s concern for others’ wellbeing is seemingly diminished in too many areas. ‘Divisiveness’ is growing like never before. It takes ‘unity’ to spell the word Community.” Strong leadership is the only way to face each challenge, he said, along with continuing the work of resolving routine problems every Borough is up against. Looking back at his first term, Murphy believes his greatest accomplishment has been working with each council member to fulfil the needs of the community and satisfy many of their wants along the way. “Simply, I am up here to work with all residents for the greater good for Atlantic Highlands. As leaders within this community, I think we should all seek to finish our terms of service with fewer personal accomplishments and more unified accomplishments as a governing body.” O’Dwyer, who ran in a close raise last year in her first attempt to become a council member, while receiving the highest number of votes for a GOP candidate for council here in the past quarter century, said she is running again primarily because she emphasizes with the many residents with whom she has spoken about their concerns for the community and feels she can help by bringing her style of leadership and collaboration to the council table in troubleshooting solutions and getting things accomplished. Many have asked her to run again, she said, and she is ready and willing. A lifelong resident of Monmouth County, O’Dwyer is the daughter of an Asian mother who was an artist and an Irish father who was a contractor. The family moved from Hazlet to Colts Neck, where she also raised her son and two daughters on a farm rehabilitating and finding homes for retired racehorses. She earned a master’s degree from Seton Hal University and is a market research and business analytics consultant for biopharma, bringing therapies to patients suffering from rare diseases. O’Dwyer began volunteering as a pre-teen joining the Civil Air Patrol’s Bayshore Squadron. She also served as a first responder for the Colts Neck First Aid Squad, and is a founding member of the Friends of the Library board. Moving to Atlantic Highlands four years ago, she serves on the Environmental, Shade Tree, and Beautification / Public Relations committees, and the Sustainable Green Team as well as the Friends of the Library, Garden Club, and the American Legion, AH Post 141. Divorced for many years, and with three grown children, all living locally, O’Dwyer was assigned to the NJ National Guard’s 194 th Dental Detachment while a student at Rider University, participating in the Guard's Simultaneous Membership Program. Upon commissioning as a second lieutenant in the US Army, she spent four years on active duty in the medical logistics field, rising to the rank of captain while serving in Texas, California, and Kentucky before being deployed to Germany, where she was billeted as Chief of Logistics for a 400 bed full capability field hospital. Over her seven years, both active and reserve, she also served as a medical platoon leader, training officer, and marksman instructor. O’Dwyer feels the major problems facing the borough for which she will offer initiatives are continuing the public safety the community enjoys, protecting open space, supporting local businesses and the environment, and added “we need to be able to multitask and solve more than one prioritized issue at a time. I think the biggest solution is to address several issues at once developing plans for new revenue streams to offset expenses, and grow the local economy.” She plans to accomplish this by bringing business and technical skills and experience to the table, coupling them with the strengths of the rest of council She said her experience as Captain of the borough’s Sustainable Green Team this year has enabled her to collaborate with the Environmental and Shade Tree commissions, as well as the local Garden Club in bringing green initiatives to protect natural resources. The candidate said her unsuccessful run for office last year taught her positive things, including that “people are willing to volunteer and get behind a good idea or cause,” and added “I enjoy making it happen, by working together, hands-on.”
Read MoreATLANTIC HIGHLANDS – Longtime Planning Board member Brian Dougherty is seeking elected office for the first time, vying for one of two council seats to be decided in the November election. He will be competing for one of the two terms against GOP candidates incumbent Councilman James Murphy and newcomer Ellen O’Dwyer. Neither party faces a challenge in the June primary but are all on the ballot for that election. Democrat Councilman Roy Dellosso who has served on the governing body 15 years, decided not to seek another term. Born in Pottsville, PA. the son of a registered nurse, who was also a union representative, and a mechanic for Reading Anthracite, Dougherty attended Westminster Choir College in Princeton, earning a Bachelor of Music degree in Music Education and Vocal Performance. He shares his professional time between two careers, both as an employee in board relations and academic programs at The Rockefeller University in Manhattan, and as a professional singer, for which he maintains a website at http://www.bridoc.com. He and his wife, Erin, a member of the local Board of Education, have been married 13 years and have two daughters and a son ranging in age from five to ten years of age. The family moved from Hoboken to Atlantic Highlands almost ten years ago. They had discovered Atlantic Highlands in 2008 when they had a wedding rehearsal dinner at Julia’s restaurant, and stayed at the Blue Bay Inn, immediately falling love with the community and knowing the wanted to move here. When the birth of their second child necessitated moving to larger quarters, they purchased their home on Center Ave. and planted their family roots in this Bayshore community. With the birth of their third child and the need for still larger quarters, they expanded that home, further settling their firmly established roots in the borough. Dougherty said he is running for council because of this love for the community as the ideal place to raise a family. But, he said, but has become frustrated with political discourse and recognized a caustic and divisive tone at the local level which he feels mirrors national politics, allowing him to see the need to become more pro-active. Having served on the local Planning Board since 2017, he appreciates how committee volunteers work in a non-partisan way to benefit the community and wanted to play a more active role. Preservation of open space, balancing the need for both capital investment in infrastructure while maintaining as low a tax rate as possible are the greatest challenges the borough faces now, he thinks, but added that because of its waterfront location, borough leaders must also face the impact climate change will have on the area half a century from now. He also is a strong supporter and would continue and look to increase the current commitment to road maintenance and improvements. Dougherty also serves on the borough’s Communications and Technology Committee which continues to find better ways to keep residents informed and connected. He feels he can be successful in reaching out to leaders in public and private sectors to bring new perspectives to these challenges. He also serves on the Environmental Commission, and the Plan Approval Advisory Committee, as well as the Board of Directors of Sandy Hook Little League, and coaches both tee ball and in the borough’s recreation soccer program. “I do my homework,” the candidate said. “ I’m ready to step in on January 1, 2022, prepared to do the work on behalf of all Atlantic Highlands residents.”
Read MoreATL HIGHLANDS – The local First Aid Squad volunteers do more than answer every possible call and serve an active part of their community. They think out of the box when it comes to being creative about getting their message across, especially when it comes to needing some help themselves. Richard Huff, President of the Squad, is indeed grateful and pleased at the great response the squad has had from local residents since they presented a video telling their own stories on line. The video was first shown last month with an advanced notice of when and how it would be available, and has since put put on the squad’s website. The video depicts several members of the squad and takes them through the emotional reasons why they themselves became volunteers. Viewers can see and hear first hand the personal benefits each squad member feels in providing assistance to others. It also details their personal heartbreak when they cannot answer a call because of insufficient response from volunteers, and tells their story with emotion, conviction, honesty, and a plea for help. Huff explained that a minimum of two members, most always three, are needed on every single emergency call that comes in for their assistance. A certified EMT is a must on every call, he said, and could be assisted by an emergency trained, but not certified, first aid volunteer. A driver is also needed, he said, and in this squad, volunteers are trained right within the borough on the emergency vehicles in use. There are many reasons why there may be insufficient members at a call, the squad president continue, in spite of having approximately three dozen volunteers on the roster. And the Covid-19 pandemic has only added to that list, he said, noting that peoples’ schedules, time constraints and obligations have changed because of quarantines and other reasons. Huff said as soon as the squad recognized Covid would bring on an even greater challenge to ensure they could meet every call for help, they decided they needed to get out the message in new ways, ways to attract more attention. The video did it. “In the past, before Covid,” Huff explained, “there were squad members everywhere, at all borough events, at the Fireman’s Fair, everywhere there were people the presence of squad members also made it known they were volunteers and filling a need for the community. They were there to answer any questions, to invite membership, to tell people the benefits. Now, with quarantines in place, these efforts were hampered.” Huff said members felt they had become more aggressive in explaining their need, and producing the video seemed like an unusual way to get their message across. “We had a need to increase awareness and find a way to start a conversation,” he said, “and this worked.” Since the video was first shown, Huff said there has been a great response, both from new people wanting to join, people wanting to know how they can help besides becoming a member, and people making to make donations as a means of helping defray expenses the squad has. In response to questions, Huff and all squad members explain that it is time consuming and not easy to become an EMT member, which includes more than 200 hours of training for certification. Nurses who already know emergency methods of rescues take a different course for their EMT certification, he said, and drivers learn locally. The good news, he added, is that many people who start out in one area over time move on to take further courses and become EMTS, simply because of the satisfaction they get out of helping others and being, literally, in life and death situations when they can take positive action.” Squad members take great pride in their work, Huff said, recognize they are highly trained and recognize the life support they can provide. The president also praised Dr. Ken Lavelle their Medical Director not only for the pride squad members can take in their excellence, but also because of the additional services the Director enables them to offer. Only squads who have a medical director can proceed with some specifically identified emergency medical responses, he explained, and Dr. Lovell, who is affiliated with Jefferson Hospital in Philadelphia, is available at all times to authorize their use of special procedures and medications and to do follow-up . “We’re serving our community,” Huff said, “we want to be the best we can be.” The numbers and times of calls fluctuate greatly, he continued, noting there have been 383 so far this year, and figures have risen as high as 640 in a year. Calls can be as simple as a scrape or minor wound, or as serious as cardiac arrest or breathing problems. Nor is there any particular time of day or night when it is more difficult to get responders, though early mornings, when parents are getting children out to school or heading to work can present problems. He himself has been a member since 2005 when he felt frustrated at seeing an emergency situation and not being able to do anything about it. Similar stories are told by other squad members, but all realize one person really can make a difference. “Our organization is made up of teachers, lawyers, carpenters, office workers, nurses, stay-at-home moms. We’re a place where people can use their previous experience in finance, marketing, education, psychology, technology and more, to make meaningful contributions to the Squad,” Huff said. He added there are more benefits in addition to personal satisfaction, include eligibility for college tuition benefits under the Volunteer Tuition Credit Program, the Atlantic Highlands funded Length of Service Awards Program, and various discounts afforded first responders throughout the state. “This is a great time to join our team and become a member of this dynamic organization,” said Chief Ann Schoeller, the squad’s first female chief. “It comes down to, ‘we’re a team,’ “she said, “we’ve been a squad in Atlantic Highlands since 1929, we work together, we help each other, we are all dedicated and we all try to be flexible . We just want to be there to help our neighbor.” Persons wishing to know more about the local First Aid Squad can visit their website at AHFAS. Org, call their non-emergency line at 732-291-8118 or e-mail info@ahfirstaid.org. Any member swill be happy to share the joy of being a member.
Read MoreHIGHLANDS – Resource Interpretive Specialist Nicholas Wood will present a virtual exploration of the Navesink Twin Lights in a live presentation sponsored by the Monmouth County Library on Wednesday, May 12. Wood, who specializes in historic resources and is presented at the Twin Lights, will explore the history of the lighthouses as well as the historical events that occurred in and around the historic focus point since it was first constructed in the 219th century. The program, which will be doncuted at 10:30 a.m. will be presented on Zoom and is presented at no charge to the public. Registration and internet access are required. The public is reminded the program is protected by copyright law and recording in any manner, without written agreement with the presenter, is strictly prohibited. To register for the program visit www.MonmouthCOuntyLiob.org and register under the website’s Upcoming Events list. Deadline for registration is Tuesday, May 11 at noon. Information on accessing the link for the program will be e- ailed between 3 and 4 p.m./. May 11/ For for more information on what the Monmouth Cou9nty library offers on the Twin Lights and other lighthouses, visit the website or @MonCoLibrary.
Read MoreAttached is what was put into doors around town and given to neighbors by a group of volunteers Highlands Taj Mahal June 2021 AT THE NEXT COUNCIL MEETING, WEDNESDAY JUNE 16 AT 8 PM, THIS ORDINANCE IS UP FOR PUBLIC HEARING. IT IS YOUR OPPORTUNITY TO EXPRESS YOUR OPINION ON THE $12 MILLION+ BOROUGH HALL PRIOR TO THE VOTE BY COUNCIL FACT: HIGHLANDS MUNICIPAL BUILDING will cost the Borough 12 million + to build, including the prior cost of $500K for the land purchase and taxpayers will be responsible for a MINIMUM of 8 million dollars. Based on Datausa.io from 2018, the median income for Highlands residents is $59,624 with a median property value of $273,100. As stated at the council meeting on May 19th, based on these facts, if your house is valued at $273,100, your taxes could go up a MINIMUM of $183 per year. If your house is appraised higher than $273,100, your INCREASED taxes will be assessed higher. FACT: OCEANPORT MUNICIPAL BUILDING cost $11 million to complete, with taxpayers being responsible for $3.5 million. The $11 million included the purchase of land on Fort Monmouth for $1.5 million. The median household income in Oceanport is $104,668, with a median home value of $453,200,* almost double Highlands residents’ income and home value, yet the Oceanport council found a way to assess taxpayers 2/3rd less than what Highlands residents are being asked to fund. (APP Gannett 1/27/2021 ) FACT: MIDDLETOWN MUNICIPAL BUILDING is costing $60 million to complete with NO NEW DEBT. This is due in part to the work of the council in securing a leaseback deal. The complex will house most of the township services. Middletown has also stated they wish to take on the shared services with its surrounding smaller municipalities such as court, jail, etc. They will also be serving as a satellite for County services (such as voter registration, passports etc.). The Middletown Mayor and council have publicly stated this will incur NO NEW DEBT to their taxpayers. The median household income is $74,263.* (middletownnj.org) FACT: SEA BRIGHT MUNICIPAL BUILDING - TWO buildings (Firehouse/Water Safety building and Municipal Building) at a combined cost of $12. 7 million. After the Seabright council voted to approve, Seabright residents successfully pushed for the council to put this on the ballot as a referendum vote in November so residents could weigh in. The borough hall estimated cost was $7.5 million and was just recently completed. The same architects that designed the Seabright Municipal building for $7.5 million estimated cost are assessing the Highlands Municipal building cost at close to $12 million. FACT: At the May 19th council meeting, the ordinance to saddle the taxpayers with a minimum $8 million tax debt was voted down 3-2 by council. FACT: Councilwoman Jo Anne Olzsewski stated at that same meeting that she believes homeowners on a median income “can afford to spend $183 on dinner with friends so the increase in taxes for a new Borough hall should not be an issue for people.” FACT: Mayor Carolyn Broullon, after the ordinance to saddle taxpayers with this astronomical debt for the next 20 years was DEFEATED, has brought back the VERY SAME ORDINANCE under another ordinance number, stating at the June 2 council meeting that her reason to re-introduce is because Councilmember Kevin Martin did NOT UNDERSTAND what he was voting for AND THAT HIS NO VOTE ON BEHALF AND FOR THE TAXPAYERS WAS A MISTAKE. Councilmember Martin was NOT in attendance at the June 2 meeting to comment or defend himself. WE ASK: IS THERE A REASON MAYOR BROULLON REFUSES TO PUT THIS TO REFERENDUM ON THE NOVEMBER BALLOT SO TAXPAYERS CAN WEIGH IN WITH THEIR VOTE? DO YOU FEEL THAT 4 MEMBERS OF THIS COUNCIL (Broullon, Olszewski, Melnyk and Martin) ARE TAKING YOUR TAX DOLLARS SERIOUSLY AND THAT THEY ARE TRUSTWORTHY TO VOTE ETHICALLY ON POTENTIAL COSTS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY?
Read MoreOnce again, Highlands taxpayers, start paying attention to how your money is being spent! Simply count the number of ordinances that are introduced to amend ordinances already introduced and passed. That includes the ordinance that council members voted down, that $10 million bond ordinance for the borough hall. Count what each ordinance cost in legal fees to be written, reviewed, presented to council….did that ever happen before a meeting when they vote on it?, printed and circulated. It’s nice the governing body wants to get things done, but you know the old saying…haste wakes waste…and it would be so much cheaper, make so much more sense…and cents….and give the folks in town a little more confidence in your abilities if you simply took your time and did the job right in the first place. Yet with all those expenditures and all that working in haste, nobody even took the time to look at a grant application suggested by a local resident. What would it have cost to simply review that possible free money and make a decision, rather than just ignore what seems like a rather astute resident’s suggestion? Heck, she even sent the proposal to you, but you didn’t even give her the courtesy of glancing at it. I do wonder what service oriented vendors we’re now paving the way to come into town with the amendment to that ordinance. Or is this just like the Bingo on Sunday ordinance it’s time for a change so we’ll spend the money and make it? And that doesn’t even co pare to the other discourtesy to the public, naming putting agendas out a scarce 24 hours before a meeting, then wiping out public hearings already scheduled and still current as of when the agenda is posted. But and hour and 45 minutes before a meeting starts, the Mayor is just then receiving information that makes it impossible to hold the public hearing? Why wasn’t that information available say, during a review of the ordinance before even introducing it? To expect residents to come out to a meeting only t cancel what you say is going to happen at a meeting is simply discourteous and downright rude. Particularly when it happens again and again. Then just for fun, take a closer look at the payment of bills every month and wonder whether some money couldn’t be saved there as well. Take this month for instance…and I’m only citing a few of the little items because they do pique my interest. How about a Gold police sergeant bade, or a retired police sergeant’s wallet for $69 each. Or better yet, a gold Det. Sergeant’s wallet, for $10 more, plus a $20 case to put one of those badges in? Or how about over $1,000 for tires (don’t know how many)_ for the Police Tahoe? Or $90 for a signature stamp for the clerk’s office? And another $30 to make copies….doesn’t the borough have its own copier? All little things, perhaps some of them even necessary. But there are lots of these little things that add up to a whopping big bill to pay. Especially when you include more than $620,000 for the regular payment to both school districts. But don’t take my word for it. Look at some of the bills, then ask what they’re for!
Read MoreThis is an impassioned plea. People of Highlands, I’m going to say it again. And again. And I’m going to continue saying it until you wake up, pay attention, and take action while you still have the chance, before all the taxpayers have to pay even more money and while you still have a little bit of control of your town. I say all this because the world in general knows how much I love Highlands, how happy I was to be married there and raise my children in an atmosphere of love, freedom, fun, health, education and everything else wonderful and rarely found together so neatly and plentiful as in Highlands. While my body is no longer living there, my heart still is. They say once you get the sand between your toes, you can’t leave Highlands. The truth is, Highlands can never leave you. So I am fearful at what is happening to this beautiful town. Tomorrow Night… Wednesday Night, June 2nd at 8PM… yet again, a $10 million…that’s a dollar sign, a one, and seven zeroes, is being introduced. On the surface, and without legal scrutiny, it appears to be very much like the ordinance that was just shot down by Councilmembers KL Martin and Linda Mazzola. So it makes me wonder….has the majority or just the mayor talked to one of the two dissenters into changing his or her mind and approving it on a second go around? Could it be true that in spite of all the people coming out to that meeting when it was defeated, they are not going to be listened to? That meeting remember, was poorly advertised as only being in person and not virtually available to all. Has FEMA promised their half of the $10 million in writing but nobody else can know about it yet? OK, they are all possibilities. Now read the new Section 8 of this soon to be introduced ordinance. That gives the borough the right to meet its obligations with ad valorem taxes WITHOUT LIMITATION!! That means, don’t pay any attention to that low figure on how your taxes would be impacted that you were given when the ordinance was first introduced and defeated. If you can add ad valorem taxes WITHOUT LIMITATION, you don’t even know what the tax rate will be! Then look at the section that tells you what the governing body can do if they do get grants…like the one some think they’re getting from FEMA (even though FEMA doesn’t put it in writing!) That section could mean that the powers that be can take that grant and apply it to paying off the bond….and still tax you for the entire $10 million…what with those ad valorem taxes added. It is absolutely fearful what this governing body is doing. They’re talking bonding for $10 million a second time. And they’re doing this one at a meeting where the agenda and the proposed resolutions and ordinances are downright difficult to find! Check out the Highlands NJ web page, the official page of the borough of Highlands. Try to find the meeting. It’s there and you can find it. But it isn’t easy!!!! Then take another look and seek out the resolutions and ordinances. Think about timing, All of a sudden, the borough has decided to change its webpage, so when you look for the usual suspects, whoops, they aren’t there….you have to keep searching. Kind of like the recent ordinance when it was so essential to pass a law allowing Bingo on Sundays! Really? How many applications have been made for that? That it be so essential during a pandemic, when people are out of jobs, losing their homes, and struggling, to waste money amending an ordinance that no one cares about?. Doesn’t it scare anyone that this is the second time the $10 million bond ordinance is being acted on in less than a month, even though it was voted down? Yet it’s difficult to see it in advance. It is only advertised perhaps 30 hours before the meeting and even then not easy to find. Does anyone wonder what it cost to advertise it the first time? And now a second time? Does anyone ask what the attorney charges to re-write what he wrote the first time with whatever changes there might be in it? Or, for that matter, why he didn’t include any chances in the first place? Does anyone question why there hasn’t been an executive session since it was voted down the first time ? Does that mean NOBODY except whoever told the attorney to draw it up again has even seen it, let alone know what it’s about? Or does it mean perhaps some of the council has talked about it, but not the majority? For that matter, there were many complaints about this $10 million ordinance for a building that’s supposed to be around for at least 30 years. People clearly offered other things to thing about, other ways to save money, other ideas for the building? Don’t any of these things matter to the governing body? Don’t citizens’ ideas mean enough to even be considered? If that one ordinance isn’t enough to get you interested enough to fight for your town, look at the resolutions. It’s just barely the middle of the year and already there have been 132 resolutions introduced. Compare that to other towns. Does whoever drums up all these resolutions…and check how many of them are resolutions to amend resolutions……think this town is so terrible it needs 132 resolutions in addition to 20 something new ordinances to change it? Doesn’t anyone on council love Highlands like I do? Do you, the taxpayer, think this beautiful piece of heaven on earth, with the nicest people in the world, need so many changes to make it what? Less perfect? Please love the Highlands I love.
Read MoreListening through a three hour Atlantic Highlands Council meeting the other night brought home loud and clear just how different the governing bodies of this community and its neighboring Highlands are. I would urge every Highlands council member and every person who still loves Highlands to listen in to an Atlantic Highlands council meeting to see how it could be done so much better, so much cheaper, so much more involving not only all council members but the public as well. Remember when Highlands quickly passed that ordinance permitting marijuana shops in town? It was done with little discussion, with absolutely no public input from any professionals, be they planners, psychologists, educators or anyone else. After that, the governing body had to go into executive session for something or other to discuss it. And it’s still not right, complete, or if any professionals have come with advice, information or recommendations, the public sure hasn’t heard about it. Not so in Atlantic Highlands. There they had an hour or so of deep exploration, deep questioning, deep and intelligent information from professionals as well as some great research from council members, especially Councilman Steve Borrachio who pointed out annual renewal fees could reap as much as $10 million for some communities…Highlands thinks $1500 is a good amount! Then they all took in all the information, are taking it home to study it, then taking listening to the people and then, and only then, taking action. Highlands taxpayers, you ought to start looking at what all these ordinances are costing you, not only in legal fees and office time, but all those advertising costs as well. Does Highlands really need to introduce no fewer than 26 ordinances before the year is even half over? By comparison, Atlantic Highlands adopted nine ordinances. Last year, Highlands adopted 26 ordinances in total! Atlantic Highlands, 11. Does the Highlands mayor, who is the one who seems to know the most about any new ordinance, think Highlands is in such bad shape it needs so many changes and new laws … or is this some type of competition? Because the mayor is the one who usually introduces, explains and makes the motions on all these ordinances, it once again makes me wonder, particularly in the absence of advertised executive sessions to discuss them, how many council members actually know what’s in these expensive codes they introduce before they introduce them. You have to hand it to Atlantic Highlands Councilwoman Lori Hohenleitner. She pulled off what could have been a very embarrassing and very crude situation at the council meeting, when to my way of thinking, things got a bit too crass considering the usual high quality of these council meetings. But rather than act insulted, rather than be indignant, rather than grow angry at the hint she might not respect the American flag because she turns off her camera when she stands to pledge at the beginning of the meeting, she stood and showed why she shuts off the camera! With a bit of a tease in her voice, the councilwoman pointed out that most people would not like to see the torso of a 40-something that would be on display throughout the pledge if she did not turn off the camera. And while in another town, there’s a spouse who always likes to stick up for her husband, I think this was a first for Lori’s husband. Obviously indignant over the suggestion his wife isn’t patriotic, he went public with his opinion, earning a great comment from his wife when the meeting was adjourned. This was the second time political comments on the local political pages came under fire at a council meeting, the first when the Democrats hinted that perhaps the police aren’t as great as we all think they are, council members said they knew nothing about it, and the post was taken down the next day. Atlantic Highlands, you’re too good for all of that nonsense. Don’t begin to stoop to that level. It was so much nicer later in the meeting hearing all the wonderful accolades for borough employees. Also difficult to understand why so many people, granted most of them from the Ocean Blvd.. area, are so opposed to further parking on Ocean Blvd. The idea came up with the former police chief, was reiterated, studied, and endorsed by the present chief, approved by Monmouth County, which owns the road in the first place, and thoroughly studied and recommended by the Parking Committee. I have no doubt most people in town respect each of these entities, but to all of a sudden decide every one of them is wrong is kind of sad. Perhaps all these people should have been attending planning board meetings when that body was approving all those apartments and not requiring off street parking for them. It would also be interesting to see how many vehicles each of those opposed to more parking spaces have within their own homes and wonder whether they have sufficient parking off street or whether they would rather cut back on their own number so as not to destroy the beauty of a neighborhood with a parked car. There’s no doubt Ocean Blvd is a scenic road but certainly not down at the level of where more parking could be accommodated. That high rise does a great job of lessening the scenic beauty or view from Ocean Blvd on its own. Thanks should go to Mark Fisher for all the work he did in study and research and for the council members who indeed weren’t thinking politics but rather common sense in thinking he had some good ideas. Thanks also to the chief who seems to work well with everyone eager to do the best for the town as a whole. Sounds like good news coming concerning the theater on First Avenue. Can’t wait to hear all the new details. And July 1 will mark the opening to the public of Borough Hall, not that the employees haven’t been diligently at work behind those closed doors every day. And folks have to remember that all districts will vote in the Charles Hesse Parish Center on South Avenue this election day. That’s a switch, and it’s probably temporary, but for the primary, don’t forget. There are no contests among the Democrats, ,but Republicans have the opportunity vote off the GOP line and bring Serena DeMaso back to Trenton as our hard working Assemblywoman, and hey, let’s put Tom Scarano in for freeholder/county commissioner! He’s hard working, smart, and certainly will be able to hold his own on that board. Judging from the enthusiasm for that team last week, from former Lt. Gov. Kim Guadagno right on down, Serena will still be in there fighting for us in the state Assembly. But go out and vote, just to be sure! And while I’m talking about some great things that have happened around here, look for some of my 20th century history stories focusing on the Middletown filming of The Miracle Worker 60 years ago. Historian Peter Van Nortwick supplied me with enough information to write a book, from how Matt Gill got the McLean Farm for the film company to use for outdoor scenes to how the Van Nortwick bus company transported the 100 or so crew members and stars from their accommodations at the Molly Pitcher to the farm on Red Hill Road every day. There will be a story on some of the local kids who were called on for bit parts in the film, as well as some great photos Peter has in his collection. What a fun time that must have been! And look for something really great, and really exciting happening at the Atlantic Theater on First Avenue very soon. Some mighty fine people are involved and things are looking pretty terrific! Watch for it.,
Read MoreOnce again, cheers to Kim Skorka for managing to put the Highlands Council meeting live on Facebook Thursday night, when the Mayor and Council decided to hold their first meeting in person, shutting off virtual attendance at a meeting that involved a $10 million new borough hall, a couple of ordinances to make it easier to open a marijuana shop in town and a few more things all borough residents should really know about and get concerned over. Cheers also for that half dozen or so local residents who did get to speak up at that meeting at the Community Center and made so much sense during the public portion on the bonding ordinance. Their voices and hearts reached to at least two council members, Linda Mazzola and Kevin Martin, who said they were there to do the will of the people, not their own. Loved the Highlands Avenue resident and attorney who reminded the elected officials that “government works for the people,” and urged the council to listen to the people, and find another way. He made a lot of sense, and while he said it was his first time speaking out at a public meeting, it certainly is hoped he’ll be there again and again with his sensible thinking and great ideas. It’s also amazing when you think of it, that Mayor Broullon was not the only Mayor in the room, as she pointed out. The last two mayors were also present, and it speaks well for the interest, love, and dedication of both that even after they’ve been out of office, they still are there on the opposite side of the desk to ensure things are done right and in the manner the people want. Melissa Pedersen always seems to do a lot of homework and research before attending any meeting and Thursday was no exception. When she was told that the $10 million figures took the last year’s dramatic and sharp increase in building supply costs into consideration, she questioned how they could be so, since the $10 million figure hasn’t changed in three years and nobody could predict Covid, or many other things. She said nobody has a crystal ball, but the boro hall plans certainly seem to be short-sighted without enough research into alternate possibilities. She reminded council taxpayers have already had a pretty expensive year, what with council paying out $10,000 for a Welcome to Highlands sign, creating a new position not yet filled “as far as I know” for a confidential aide for the mayor and administrator, and hiring an administrator at a considerably higher salary that the last one. “You’re spending a hell of a lot of money” she told the Mayor and Council. It’s true, as many people have said, there are three or four ladies who speak out pretty consistently at council meetings, and taxpayers should thank them profusely for being so attentive, resourceful, and interested. Too many things can just slide by when people simply don’t care, don’t act, don’t even become informed. When the tax bills come in, it’s too late to complain. The time to question and have input is before funds are authorized, before things change. It still makes me wonder when the council gets to know everything that’s going on without executive sessions. How do you dream up seven new ordinances without any consideration in an executive session, let alone a public meeting? Do they even read them or simply pay the attorney to draw something up, pay newspapers to print them, then figure only the resourceful ladies, and at this last meeting, some very intelligent men as well, will know about it and maybe they can just get these things done before the folks find out what the heck is really happening? And while I think the Mayor is a charming lady, is working hard for what she feels is right for the town, and many other things, did anyone else notice how different her chair at the table is from the others? Most are straitlaced, professional looking and comfortable enough for a meeting, hers appears to be more a classic piece of furniture with a padded back and very pretty oval design. Kind of royal looking. One more thing. The possibility of a marijuana shop on Bay avenue is one thing, but can’t you just see the signs on the highway now if a marijuana shop opens on Route 36, as one ordinance introduce this week would permit. Something like “Get Your Pot Here! Last Stop before enjoying in on the Beach.” Wonder whether Sandy Hook rangers are gonna feel about that?
Read MoreLove the Visiting Nurses Association (VMA) and love all they do, including coupling with our own First Call company on First Avenue who will be giving Covid tests Saturday from 10 a.m. to noon at the Harbor along with other giveaways. That's all very good. But really, why is VNA coming to the Harbor in the first place? Why aren't they going to an area in need? Does everyone forget how hard Rich Stryker worked, studied, and put money into being able to give Covid shots at Bayshore Pharmacy? Does everyone forget that in spite of all this readiness, because he wasn't a giant conglomerate of a pharmacy, he never got the vaccine until recently? So now he has it, now he's all prepared, now he's giving the vaccine on a regular basis and local folks are so happy to have their friendly pharmacist be involved. Let the VNA go where there isn't a friendly pharmacist who's well prepared. So well prepared, we hear, that J&J is now begging him to take some more of their vaccine before it goes bad. Stop in the pharmacy, see their setup for vaccines, say hello to the friendly staff, and remember they're a local business who really love your support. Go in if only to get cheered up...has anyone ever seen Rich Stryker without a friendly smile and a hearty laugh?
Read MoreWell it took the strength of two council members in Highlands, KL Martin and Linda Mazzola, but borough residents were finally heard at a council meeting and the proposed $10 million borough hall bonding was shot down by the votes against it by these two council members last night. Can’t give all the intimate details about the discussions and public hearing that preceded the vote, but kudos to Mr. Martin and Ms Mazzola who both said they were listening to the people. A bonding issue requires four votes, not simply a majority, so Mr. Martin not voting with the crowd was the deciding factor. Ms Mazzola had said in the past that unless she had a warranty in writing from FEMA they were indeed going to finance part of it, she did not want to burden the taxpayers. And Mr. Martin said the same thing, adding he didn’t get elected for himself, but rather to represent the people. And he feels from everything he’s heard, the overwhelming majority of them didn’t like the $10 million proposal and accompanying tax rate if FEMA didn’t come through. It is a shame, however, that government officials can’t trust government officials, but it’s true. Why does anyone think FEMA would hand over 5 million dollars now when they haven’t done it in the ten years or so since Sandy? Is it because borough officials never asked for it before? Is it because they didn’t want to fund it before? Is it for some other reason? Who knows, cause this Mayor nor the last has never said. Certainly happy though that Mr. Martin and Ms. Mazzola were against a 5 million dollar gamble. Can’t give the intimate details on the vote simply because I couldn’t get to the meeting, what with there being no official announcement that all of a sudden virtual meetings are gone. In spite of not one, but two requests, I got no response from borough hall on what ADA accommodations they would make for my handicap, one that affects the vast majority of senior citizens. (yes, I’m definitely one of those!!!) It would seem that now that everyone has gotten used to virtual meetings, it should now be possible to offer meetings both virtually and in person. Only private citizen Kim Skorka cared enough to be sure people who couldn’t make the meeting could still get an idea of what was going on. She simply had the meeting live on Facebook, and while imperfect, it gave those at home, and those who want to see it again or for the first time, the opportunity to go on the Highlands Facebook page and see the action live. Like her or not, listen to her opinions because they’re all based on thoughtfulness, research, thinking out of the box, and a genuine concern for the future of Highlands. The same goes true for former Councilwoman Claudette D’Arrigo who also gave some very moving and deeply felt remembrances tonight of the late Carol Bucco. Claudette almost made you feel Carol’s presence in the room and it was heartfelt and true. There’s something else I’ve been wondering about and haven’t figured out on my own yet. Lots of things happen at council meetings….say, the introduction of seven ordinances at a meeting that also had public hearings on two other ordinances, practically all of which will have long lasting impacts on Highlands residents for generations. When do you think council members come up with all these things? Surely they don’t do it together, do they? Of course not, because there haven’t been any notices of executive meetings. So do the elected officials even get to read these ordinances, none of which is cheap to introduce, you know, before putting them on the agenda? Does each one decide he or she will come up with an ordinance and drop it in the laps of the others at the meeting? Somebody must know about them, since they’re on the agenda. But executive sessions must also be advertised.
Read MoreRemember a few months back when the borough gave a chunk of Cornwall street away to the two restaurants on either side of it, but kept the bulkhead to itself so the borough can always pay for and make bulkhead repairs? Well, since then, someone put up a barrier, and now there are tables where there used to be an ADA parking space. Don’t know who did it, or where a replacement ADA parking place is located, but it would be good to let people know. Does the borough simply allow that kind of parking place to be removed?
Read MoreCall me a cynic, call me a worry wart, or call me anything you’d like. But if the people of Highlands don’t start waking up and looking at what is going on in their town, they’re going to lose the Highlands we all know and love. They’ve certainly already lost control seeing how there is rarely any conflicting opinions or questioning of what the mayor says and promotes. Consider tomorrow (Wednesday) night’s council meeting. Without prior announcement, the governing body has decided to hold the meeting at the Community Center, which is a good idea as we all strive and yearn to get over the Covid restrictions. BUT…they’re doing it without giving citizens the right to continue virtual attendance if they choose. Or if they need. On top of that, they have public hearings on a couple of ordinances on the agenda, along with the introduction of SEVEN new ordinances, several having to do with their “we wanna be the very first to sell marijuana in our community” plans and goals. Think of the problems this will cause without even considering what the heck is in those ordinances. For one thing, now that virtual meetings are a reality, shouldn’t the governing body consider continuing virtual options to meet ADA requirements for handicapped people? Say, people who cannot drive at night, people who cannot walk up the stairs to the Community Center, people who cannot hear in that room but certainly can hear virtually. Then, if the public learns there are SEVEN ordinances being introduced, a couple on that marijuana issue, what are they going to do if there is an overflow crowd? A little planning ahead or simply offering virtual or live, would resolve two problems before they are even created. The ordinances up for public hearings probably won’t draw much of a crowd, although the need to allow Bingo on Sundays and spending the money for that ordinance seems a bit strange with so many other problems facing the borough. IS there some unseen or unknown bunch of folks that suddenly want to conduct Sunday Bingos? Or any other day for that matter? The other public hearing is on that $10 million for the new borough hall, appropriating $4.750 in bonds or notes to help finance it. Wouldn’t it be more prudent to see whether FEMA is going to give the town the money its leaders are hoping to get? Here’s another vital ordinance that is being introduced, with costs, I presume, not only for the attorney drawing it up but also for its advertisement in the newspapers, which is certainly not cheap these days. But in Highlands, it’s important enough to introduce an ordinance that takes the word “peddler” out of its licensing code for “mobile vendors,” those folks who sell from bikes, cars, trucks or other mobile means of travel. Is peddler a bad word? There’s an ordinance being introduced to extend the liquor licensed for Off the Hook, apparently to accommodate its outdoor dining. The restaurant has been doing a spectacular job of making that corner look neat, clean and inviting, and has thought outside the box when it comes to continuing to provide great meals and drinks outdoors. There are a couple of parking and no parking ordinances being introduced, one that takes away resident only parking in some places, one that takes away temporary permit parking on Washington Avenue for the….you’ll love this….”reconstruction project.” Is that where the bulkhead fell apart? Then there are the marijuana ordinances.. The one setting the fee to get a license to sell marijuana. That ordinance isn’t even designed to help Highlands financially. It sets the application fee at $1500, and the annual renewal at $750. Now check out and consider other states which have been in the business of selling pot for a while…those fees ran in the tens of thousands! And that shop will be able to be open seven days a week! From 10 a.m. every day. Of course, on Sunday, it can only be open until 5 p.m. instead of 7 p.m., it is a day of rest, remember. The borough is setting its transfer and user taxes at 2 per cent, another bargain for the marijuana dealer, not so much for the borough coffers. Then there’s the ordinance that says where the shop can be. And once again, Highlands appears to want to be sure to be the first and the cheapest to allow this new kind of business to come right smack in the middle of its business district…..or the highway! Of course the new pot place is going to have to be 1,000 feet or more from a school…but isn’t most of the highway residential? And does the school at OLPH count as a school? It still is, although closed now. What happens if it reopens? Or if a cannabis shop comes in first, can’t it ever re-open? Is that yet another jab at private education? I’m really not making this stuff up. Highlands residents, please go to the Highlands Borough page, check out the agenda, read each of the resolutions and codes yourself, attend the meeting if you’re able and ask yourself…..is this really still Highlands? Is it the future you want for Highlands? Can you even absorb yet another SEVEN new ordinances at a single meeting? Is this where you want to raise your kids? It’s up to you.
Read MoreAnybody who knows him knows that before Mater Dei Jim Smith always praised his 8th grade English teacher at OLPH, Sister Hilda, for the strong foundation she gave him in grammar. He's got a natural talent for writing which is far better than anything I have. So it is imperative for me,at least this one time, to step back and let him write what makes him wonder. Read it, absorb it, then let him know what you think. I'll be happy to include your comments as well! The main objective of this article was to discuss the fiasco that is Captain’s Cove Marina, the seemingly shoddy workmanship, the sweetheart deals between the Governing Body and the Developer, the hands off, laissez-faire, condescending approach the administration has towards residents’ concerns, the violation of permit requirements, and the improper disposal of dredge spoils containing known carcinogens in the Borough Right of Way. While discussing the outline of my post my objective changed when someone made an innocuous comment made in jest, they called me an idealist. The comment gave me pause and I was reminded of the adage, “There’s a grain of truth in every joke.” Long after the conversation, the comment lingered like a splinter that was beginning to fester beneath the skin. Was I an idealist? That turned into Why do I care? The answer to the first question is simple, in many ways I am an idealist, I am a person who cherishes or pursues high or noble principles, purposes, or goals. I look at most situations not as they are, but at what they should be. Captain’s Cove certainly falls into that category. The answer to the second question, why do I care? is a bit more complicated. I no longer live in Highlands, and I haven’t for many years, none of the “Smiths” live there any longer, and none of my business or personal interests are negatively impacted by the decisions of this new Mayor and Council, so why do I care? It’s a two-part answer, number one, I am an idealist, and I can’t help myself. Firsts, the agreements, the deals, the special treatment of Captain’s Cove Marina are wrong, so I feel a moral obligation to try to right it. And two is legacy. I often refer to my childhood growing up in Highlands as idyllic. The river, the ocean, the woods, the summers, what more could a young boy want? What I never say is that it was easy. I didn’t go to Henry Hudson with the friends I had known all my life. Not because Henry Hudson didn’t offer a good education, but because of my faith I went to Mater Dei in New Monmouth. It was new, it was exciting, and it was an eye opener. Outside of Highlands, the Borough’s reputation is the dregs of society. This is a reality to anyone who has lived there longer than 5-10 years. Highlands, Belford, Keansburg, all the bottom of the proverbial barrel and the “Upper Crust” kids of Middletown weren’t shy about letting you know where you stood. This current administration isn’t doing anything to dismiss those long-held beliefs. This is a Mayor who was elected by one vote. Where 50% of the voters didn’t think she was up to the job, and instead of earning their approval, she alienates them through her failure to listen and consider opposing perspectives, and ideas, dismissive mannerisms, and draconian approach to governance. Why do I care? Because my Grandfather, amongst others, was responsible for this Marina being built back in 1947. He didn’t do it for personal gain, he did it because it was a good thing for Highlands. Now some 74 years later the Marina is in disrepair and in need of substantial rehabilitation. I’m ecstatic that there is a developer willing to invest the money to undertake this project, but the town and specifically the Mayor and Council have a moral and legal obligation to ensure that it is done right. I’m not convinced that is being done. Why do I care? Because it’s the right thing to do.
Read MoreThe Mayor and Council did an awful lot of things right at their meeting this week, but there’s so much more they can do to prove to the people that they really are open and not keeping actions that affect all taxpayers under wraps. Cheers to Linda Mazzola and Don Melnyk pressing the vote on voting for each of the resolutions individually. It’s usually not a terrible idea to group them all together, but that’s in towns where people are kept abreast of everything and most of the resolutions are routine anyway. Ms Mazzola is pretty much the only council member who asks questions, and Mr. Melnyk is doing a great job in opening up communications, so hopefully both are trying to keep the public informed. It was great to see all their faces this week, a sharp contrast to previous meetings when you could only each when he or she spoke. This late in the game and they’re finally starting to be as professional as so many other towns. It’s greater news that they’re really going to hold meetings that people can attend again, but it’s a shame they won’t continue a combination of in person and Zoom. It’s a new world out there now, with plenty more possibilities for people to learn what’s going on in town, but I guess it will take a while before Highlands gets that advanced or desirous of wanting the people to know everything. The “cannabis legislation’ is one example. The agenda reported that the executive session prior to the meeting, was for “cannabis legislation.” During the meeting, the attorney said it was necessary for “attorney-client privilege,” which, according to state law, is not a reason for the governing body to discuss a matter in executive session. Highlands has already adopted an ordinance allowing marijuana…the type of cannabis included in the new state law.. to be sold in stores in the borough. Is the executive session because the borough is being sued for acting so quickly? Is the executive session because maybe they rushed that ordinance through too fast and has to be amended before it even goes into effect? Is it because a member of council knows somebody who wants to open a marijuana store? The executive session for “attorney-client privilege” leaves too many questions unanswered. For the second time, the governing body introduced that $10 million ordinance for the will-it-ever-be- borough hall on the highway, and this time the public hearing will be May 19. The good news is there MIGHT be FEMA funds totaling half of that amount, which would make the tax rate increase about four cents, instead of the seven cents predicted before. The bad news is there’s no guarantee that FEMA money will really be coming, no matter how promising it looks. So once again, after ten years, what is the rush? Hasn’t that FEMA money been pursued before while so many other municipalities have already rebuilt with FEMA funds? Certainly happy the emergency and police volunteers in Highlands are continuing their agreement with the Coast Guard to be first responders should there be fire or health emergencies on Sandy Hook. But no one seemed to know whether Middletown, where the Sandy Hook Coast Guard station is located, is also a first responder. Nobody seemed to know whether there’s a similar agreement with the National Park Service for the rest of Sandy Hook, though Highlands is forever out there in emergency situations. Of course Highlands is closer, Sea Bright is closer, but Sandy Hook is still in Middletown and Middletown ought to be doing more than its fair share not only in emergency situations, but even in all that traffic folks in Highlands have to endure for Sandy Hook visitors. Yet keep in mind, when there are private/public agreements out there, Middletown certainly wants the taxes for improvements. Criticizing the governing body is healthy for a council that wants to keep the people informed and happy, but the public has obligations as well. Yet only one resident asked any questions on the municipal budget during the public hearing. Yet many will be down there complaining when they get their tax bills. That simply isn’t fair. There will be more on it, but May 22 from 9 ,a.m. to 2 p.m. is the town-wide yard sale. Check out the borough’s page for how and when to sign up to be included in advance information on it. This is always a fun idea, keeps things orderly, and brings lots of folks looking for bargains or treasurers into town.
Read MoreIt makes me wonder….and I know it’s not a popular position to take…..but are the facts always really checked when someone files complaints or civil suits or goes on TV or Facebook to say they were sexually assaulted? The New York political candidate recently charged for unlawful and unwanted advances on a volunteer who worked for him years ago is the latest example that makes me wonder about these things. He’s going on tv saying it isn’t true, that isn’t the kind of person he is, anything he’s done has been consensual. She’s going on with written statements she’s only too happy to share saying it’s all so, she’s been damaged, and it isn’t right. She’s even going on comedy shows and making a mockery of her ‘assault’ in disgusting terms. That’s ok, she said, because it’s therapeutic to be able to laugh about it. Really? Ruining another person’s life because you say he did something years ago? Is there no one who believes him? Aren’t we still in America where everyone is innocent until proven guilty? Did she file a criminal charge against him, and is that being investigated? Or did she simply file a civil charge and it’s her word that will get her monetary compensation, which I guess, is more therapeutic even than mocking it on television. Last year, the Boy Scouts folded, are in the midst of selling their assets and agreeing to settle all the civil suits that were filed by a specific deadline. That means that everyone who met that deadline, got themselves a lawyer to represent them…there are bundles out there who make their own healthy compensation on that kind of class action suit…..will simply get a check. No proof needed, no going to court, no hearing from the ‘accused,’ simply a fat check and poof, therapy has cured whatever happened decades before. Forget about lives ruined, reputations damaged forever. Without any investigations or proofs, it almost looks like a creative writer can make more in civil suits than in writing books. The same thing appears to be happening with the clergy. There are attorneys advertising they’ll be happy to represent ‘victim’s so long as they get the story, get the ‘facts’ and file the action before a specific deadline. Have we sunk so low we don’t even bother to check facts or circumstances before finding someone guilty or making him pay for something he never did?
Read MoreYou gotta love Assemblywoman DiMaso. She's a strong advocate of keeping our personal lives personal. While vaccines are most likely the right way to go...I say most likely because we don't know the impact they could have on us after they've been tested a few years... but she's a stronger advocate of the government not dictating everything we do on an everyday basis. So having to carry a card to prove we've done the deal when we're sitting next to our friends at a baseball game or buying a hot dog in a small restaurant is a little much. Small businesses have had it tough enough during the pandemic, and they've been wise, learned a lot...lost a lot as well....and don't need yet another mandate to check on people before they can spend money. Read my story in my trains and planes column to see how much more difficult it is already in order to travel. We should have such stringent regulations at the southern border. On a cheerier note, I love East Point Fitness on Route 36 on the Highlands line with Middletown, and love all the people who go there. Nice to see so many taking great (and fun) steps to stay healthy. But I laugh everytime I pull into the parking lot because all of the spots closest to the fit ness center are filled with all the people going inside the fitness center to get their exercise. COuldn't it start in the parking lot by parking at the far end or at least on the other side? Ane back to that new bakery on West Avenue in Atlantic Highlands...that is only open weekends for now but will open more days soon...take the time while you're in that parking lot to see the other great businesses there. Woodhaven Florist maks you smile just to see all their beautiful plants outside, and their shelves of books ready for the borrowing. There's a hair cutter in there as well, and a dog groomer. It's my bet this little mall is going to grow and become more popular...there's still one empty store for rent.
Read MoreThere are Democrats with some class and Jon Crowley, councilman in Atlantic Highlands is one of them. Look for the response shortly that the councilman is issuing in response to the police disparagement hoopla on the AH Democratic club's page! Sounds like he and the other Democrat council members and Dem chair are above such antics. Haven't looked, but I also heard he's made certain the ugly stuff is gone from the page.
Read MoreI was stunned to hear at the Atlantic Highlands Council meeting that one of the town's political parties put up a photo and a police-hating message on their Facebook page on April 13 of all days...Thomas Jefferson's birthday..... that does nothing but teach children how to distrust police. In a community like Atlantic Highlands, where the police are a vital part of everyday life, where they take the time from their duties to help a wonderful kid who painted beautiful pictures for elderly residents just to make them feel better, where you know you can call an officer and ask for help for anything from giving you information to being there in a crisis, the page was an absolute insult. Let's not compare, relate or even infer national issues in major cities where there are major crimes every day and police action needed to respond to major crimes every day have anything to do with a community like Atlantic Highlands. So many of us stop a military member to say thanks for your service, or pick up the tab for their lunch if we see them in a restaurant. It's about time we start doing that for police officers like Atlantic Highlands has on its force every day. Go to Veni, Vedi Scripto and read for yourself how our local PBA President....a great guy himself., as is the entire department had to say about what the AH Democratic club had up on its page. I didn't look tonight, I certainly hope it's gone by now. Good officers are pretty hurt, offended and disgusted right now...let's give them thanks for their jobs well done! ______________________________________________________________________ As the Atlantic Highlands PBA President, I would like to take the time to address the Mayor and Council specifically the members of the Atlantic Highlands Democratic Party. I come to you today first, as a concerned Father, Husband and Police Officer about a picture that was posted on the Atlantic Highlands Democratic Club Facebook page on 4/13. For those unaware this post depicts a faceless, brown skinned male subject, hands up in the air, with four bullet holes on his shirt. Next to this picture there is also writing that states "Hands Up, They Shoot, Hands Down, They Shoot, You Walk, They Shoot, You Run, They Shoot, You Hide, They Shoot, You Sleep, They Shoot, You Comply, They Shoot". By "they" this picture insinuates that "they" are Law Enforcement Officers and we the members of Atlantic Highlands PBA Local 242 are Law Enforcement Officers. This post which is completely untrue attempts to spew hatred, and entice violence towards Law Enforcement Officers with no factual basis behind it. This comment, filtered to all that can read it are teaching young kids that all Law Enforcement Officers are racist, killers and this attitude can result in somebody getting hurt or killed. This comment is inflammatory and untrue and our residents’ young and old should not be taught to be afraid of us. This disgusting rhetoric attempts to portray a false narrative that police shoot people for no reason. Although this Atlantic Highlands Democratic Club Facebook page has 459 fans with only 2 comments and 10 likes under this post proves to us that a majority do not support this ignorant view. It was on 3/12 that Resolution 54-2021 was passed by the Borough of Atlantic Highlands making the month of May, Law Enforcement Appreciation Month, one month and one day later this post appears. Myself and the members of the Atlantic Highlands PBA 242 who serve the Atlantic Highlands community are offended by this post and completely surprised that members of the Democratic Party feel this way about us. The Atlantic Highlands Police Department is a diverse Department that serves this community with the upmost pride and respect. The Atlantic Highlands PBA denounces any form of hatred or injustice against anyone and we condemn this post and what it represents. Thank you Adam Gurian Atlantic Highlands PBA 242 President
Read MoreThe resident who frequently questions and follows up on numerous actions of the governing body was fearful she might miss the meeting because of other obligations. Rather than take t hat chance, she emailed questions, was able tolisten to a portion of meeting. She let Veni, VId, Scripto know she wold have even had her questions in earlier but thought some of them may have been answered during the regular meeting. So she waited until the agenda was posted, which didn't happen until almost the 11th hour, sometime the day before the meeting. Michelle, I don't know if I'll be able to attend the council meeting. Kindly ensure the following questions are asked during public portion if they are not addressed during the regular meeting: I never received an answer from Councilmember Martin. What is the status of the USGS steep slope study? What is the status of the public hearing(s) on the school consolidation feasibility study? Has anyone reached out to the state regarding the police department study that never got off the ground? What is the status? I have noticed that Monmouth County is doing our street sweeping. I support shared services if they are saving us money. If Monmouth County is using their equipment, can we sell our sweeper? Why is Mayor Broullon still denying that the borough is not allowed to hold in-person council meetings? Emphasis mine, at the end. According to Open Public Meetings Act, N.J.S.A. 10:4-1 et seq.,(b) If during a declared emergency a local public body holds a physical meeting in a location where, pursuant to State and/or Federal guidelines meant to mitigate the risk of contagious infection, the declared emergency necessitates capacity restrictions reducing the number of individuals that can be present in the meeting room to an amount below that reasonably expected for the public meeting by the governing body, the local public body must either: (1) hold the public meeting at another location with adequate capacity for the reasonably expected attendance by the public; or (2) hold the public meeting as both an in-person meeting and a remote public meeting. As set forth in N.J.A.C. 5:39-1.4(c), no in person meeting shall proceed if the room capacity does not permit any member of the public to attend. Based at that final section, the council is able to hold a meeting safely in the community center. There is more than enough room for the council and administration to socially distance, and a limited number of the public to attend in person. The reduced capacity allows for this. Thank you, Kim S
Read MoreHIGHLANDS - Local resident Kim Skorka almost didn’t get her questions and concerned addressed at last night‘s meeting of the Mayor and Council, except for the alert attention of Councilwoman Linda Mazzola. During an otherwise well run and organized council meeting, complete with a new presentation of visuals far improved from last month, the public portion was coming to an end and Mayor Carolyn Broullon announced she saw no more hands to be recognized. It was then that Mazzola asked if an e-mail had not been received with some concerns mentioned. Broullon, obviously irked or upset by the reminder, concurred, and apparently with the e-mail in front of her or easily accessible, responded to Skorka, though never reading the e-mail to the public nor entering it on the public record of the meeting. In response to Skorka’s question about the status of a USGS steep slope study and the fact she has asked before and never received a response from Councilman Martin, Broullon said the last report was in 2017 and she doesn’t know anything about it since then. Although she did not go into detail, that was when the USGS put sensors on the steep slope in Atlantic Highlands to monitor movement of the slope. The hill was the topic of numerous newspaper articles and stories and the topic at many council meetings in both Highlands and Atlantic Highlands when the 10 story Eastpointe was in the planning stages half a century ago. At that time, James R. Snyder headed the firm that wanted to construct two high rises on Mount Mitchill; Highlands approved what was then Top of the East and Atlantic Highlands denied it on the adjacent tract in that municipality where Mount Mitchill County Park and the 9-11 Memorial are now located. Some residents say the sensors put in place a few years ago sensed movement shortly thereafter, but since Skorka knew of no updates or further information on any faults in the steep slope, she posed the question. In response to Skorka’s question on the status of public hearings on the school consolidation feasibility study, Broullon said there are none set as people want an open meeting when all can be present rather than on Zoom. Nor was there any update on Skorka’s question concerning the state’s plans regarding a police department study. Skorka also questioned why Highlands cannot hold in-person council meetings, citing the Open Public Meetings act which would suggest meetings could be held both in person and virtually to accommodate any size crowd. The mayor contended the Governor has said no more than 25 persons can be gathered for a meeting, and the present presentations will continue. That the Council was portrayed better this month than last may well have been in response to numerous earlier comments when the administration stopped permitting the faces of the public during the meeting. At that time the Mayor said persons attending the meeting would not be shown, citing cases where people were not professional and she did not feel it was proper at a government meeting. However, in eliminating the public’s portrayals during the public portion, administration also only showed council members individually when each was speaking as opposed to throughout the meeting. Last night, administration used the more common form of meeting protocol used by many towns in which all council members and professionals are shown, and speakers are recognized by voice only during the public portion.
Read MoreIf you don’t want to read opinions on political issues, stop reading the next section. But I do wonder about the idea of withdrawing all of our troops from Afghanistan on the 20th anniversary of the Bombing of the World Trade Center. Does that mean we are now going to be celebrating the end of a war and forgetting about all the people who perished in that bombing? Are we going to have bands playing and grand speeches on Mount Mitchill rather than solemn reminders of all our local residents who personally felt the agony of so many deaths? Are we going to be celebrating we are giving the enemy the country and forgetting all our military who have fought and died for freedom for the people? It makes me wonder. And while I’m on national issues, Mr. Jefferson’s 278th birthday was the same day I heard about the possibility of increasing the Supreme Court. When FDR’s attempt to increase the number of Supreme Court Justices was revisited while the current President was in the Senate, he called it a ‘bonehead idea.” I certainly hope that isn’t why he is in support of that same idea now. Granted, while since 1789, we’ve gone from five to 10 Justices before we settled on nine right after the Civil War, it’s been working for more than 100 years just fine and other stipulations have been put into place just so the Supreme Court could and would remain non-political. As it must! I wonder about the changes being suggested, but I can’t help wonder what poor Mr. Jefferson and the other Founding Fathers must be thinking.
Read MoreJust from my own experience, I know how well the Atlantic Highlands Public Works department keeps that recycling yard, how efficient they are in keeping it clean and neat, and how they are always there to make sure there’s plenty of room in the crusher to take all those boxes and newspapers. But it’s also nice and not at all surprising to see the borough administrator making rounds of all municipal businesses and buildings, just to keep himself certain things are up to his standard. Besides that, he’s downright nice to all the employees, which might be another reason why this borough operates so smoothly, the employees are so polite and courteous, and always eager to accommodate the public. Speaking of boxes in that crusher, it’s getting very obvious more and more people are shopping Amazon and other home delivery places. But I do wonder why everything always comes packaged in boxes way too big for the shipped item, meaning there’s a lot of air-filled bags picking up the slack inside and oversize boxes being used once and tossed into recycling. The price of convenience! Highlands has its council meeting Wednesday night, and the resolution on the agenda allowing the municipal budget resolution to be introduced by title only means folks won’t get to see the $8.145 million budget unless they seek it out themselves. There is $10,000 scheduled to be approved though, to pay the Business Partnership for that sign that was up at Linden Avenue, taken down by borough employees and the story gets fuzzy about what happened after that, but it seems there have been plenty of executive sessions over what to do about it, and the governing body would rather give the Partnership $10,000 than carry on discussions about it any further. Hope it doesn’t take too long to get the new sign back. Summer is almost here. Nice to see Martin Hawley will be add as a special law enforcement officer when necessary, and Father Jarlath Quinn, pastor Our Lady of Perpetual Help-St. Agnes, has been named chaplain for the police department. We can all do with some prayers, that’s for sure, and Father Jarlath is amiable, helpful, and downright nice. Good for the Chief for recommending him.
Read MoreThat three hour long council meeting in Atlantic Highlands was unusually long, what with the two hours of actually listening to the public voice their opinions on parking on Ocean Blvd. That part of the meeting made me think, once again, the differences between this town and Highlands, these two adjacent, and both charming and wonderful towns. A two hour public hearing? Letting everyone say what he wanted? Even let him talk a second time if he thought of something new or different? Courteous and polite, with words of thanks for having the hearing in the first place, polite discourse and exchange of ideas? Then putting off action to give the governing body time to review all the comments? All of this, even though not only this Chief of Police, but the one prior to this, to say nothing of the Parking Committee and its very investigative researcher and chairman, all recommended it? It would do Highlands voters well to listen in…and oh yes, actually see, all of the council members and see how a really excellent council meeting should be run. Then during the last hour of the meeting, this bipartisan elected body did so many more things. Read the news story about how one council-member called for a resolution to be removed for discussion because she said she doesn’t want to vote for anything political, then yep, she voted for it. And another council-member abstain rather take a stand either way, because he thought it had too many vagaries.” The bottom line is, all this council wanted to do, and did, was show the state Department of Healthy that here in Atlantic Highlands, elected officials care about their local businesses, will stand up for them any day, and will do anything they can as often as they can to protect and help this business and every other business in town. If that’s politics, it’s the first time I’ve ever seen it be so kind, pleasant and caring. So parking on Ocean Blvd. and helping local businesses aside, the Mayor and Council here also announced a town wide Yard Sale on May 15 and urged everyone to sign up for it before the May 1 deadline. This is an annual event that draws lots of folks into town, lets lots of families do great spring cleanings of their homes, provides maps of the homeowners who signed up, and there again, helps the local restaurants and cafes because shoppers like to take that break between visiting and scooping up all the goodies. They also announced what sounds like a really great musical event at the Yacht Harbor on July 31 featuring some really great local names in music, and the Recreation Committee will have lots more on that before summer. They explained why water on the west side of town has been brownish, but explained it isn’t pretty, but not sickening to drink, and even explained homeowners should just let water run from the lowest tap on their property, like the outside hookup for the garden hose, to clear the water. They also let folks know that disposable wipes have created a problem in the sewage system, and should be disposed of in the garbage rather than toilet when necessary, to save the town money and the DPW some extra work needed for repairs sewage lines. They let the folks know there will definitely be a public hearing on what’s going to be happening with marijuana in Atlantic Highlands, and that meeting will have to be held before Aug. 22. Just to be sure everyone knows about it so they can of course have another probably long public hearing, they will have more information, the time and date will be on the borough web page and they’ll keep reminding people to check the webpage for the date and time when it’s been set. The administrator, who always seems to be on the job and looking out for the taxpayers, said there’s another opportunity for grant applications coming up, and he’s already looking into it to see where Atlantic Highlands can save some money and get some things done at no cost by applying for one or several. There’s going to be a groundbreaking on April 27 at 21 Lincoln Ave once the closing goes through for a Habitat for Humanity home. All this. And more. In one hour. After a two hour public hearing. And if all that isn’t enough, one final suggestion to everyone. Keep checking the borough’s official page, AHNJ.com It’s updated all the time and crammed full of all this information. What a way to run a town. Highlands…are you listening?
Read MoreWednesday’s Highlands Council meeting went smoothly, politely, courteously, and an awful lot was accomplished in a short time. But whoever takes care of their virtual technology should be fired and someone who knows enough about it to be fair to the public should run the virtual meetings. This is old stuff, now, so professionals in this borough should know at least as much as the persons in every other municipality who are conducting their meetings via zoom. Of course they can show everyone of the elected officials’ and paid professionals’ smiling faces throughout the entire meeting, not just when they’re talking. And of course they can turn the camera off of everyone from the public who speaks so that they, as the Mayor said, who come to the meeting virtually and are eating, drinking, or lying in bed or scantily clad, are not seen. (I’ve never seen that, guess I’ll have to look more closely!) It just sounds like the Mayor either doesn’t like to see the people she represents, or doesn’t want the people she and the other four represent to see them other than when they’re talking. Or both. Whichever it is, it certainly isn’t friendly and certainly insulting to those, and I presume that’s the majority, who want to know what’s going on and come to the meeting not drinking, not eating, not lying in bed and not scantily clad. Equally insulting is not requiring, or thinking to require, a report from every professional to be read at every meeting. Councilwoman Linda Mazzola said it right when she said they work hard, they do great things, and their actions and activities are truly the business of the public. Wonderful to see Councilman Don Melnyk immediately agree and call for a change in that policy, which, to their credit, they are going to do. Ms Mazzola was also right in questioning why the borough is so eager to simply hand over $10000 to the Business Partnership without seeing whether any insurance…the borough’s or the BPP’s….would cover any part of it. If it was negligence, which is debatable, doesn’t the borough have any policy that covers them for that? Why wouldn’t storm damage cover it for the BPP? The idea that they will settle a $10,000 feud under what both the mayor and attorney apparently are guaranteed would cost them $20,000 to fight is equally ludicrous. Ms Mazzola suggested showing that community spirit and letting the people do something to help raise the money Her idea is if it be necessary to shell out $10,000 rather than simply putting yet another bill on the shoulders of the taxpayers why not a fund raiser, a community event people could enjoy. That shows a great sense of thinking outside the box while drawing people together. There were certainly odd bedfellows during the public portion, with not one, but three different people, who don’t usually agree on much as one said, asking who you have to know to get away with things or take advantage of things in Highlands. Captain’s Cove raises its ugly head again. Or still. Cheers also for the resident who keeps minutes from meetings of years ago so she can correct statements made at public meetings about expenditures back then. Oh, maybe it was a typo, like the 2020 deadline for filing an application for that confidential clerk to the Mayor and Administrator position. That same resident also cited a fascinating local law neither the attorney nor the council seemed to know about.
Read MoreHIGHLANDS - Charging the majority of the governing body have signed their voting rights away and created a dictatorship in the borough, former Councilwoman Claudette D’Arrigo minced no words in conversations with The Monmouth Journal in criticizing the recently adopted ordinance which enables the mayor alone to hire and fire a newly created position as confidential aide to the mayor and administrator. When contacted for comment, Mayor Broullon made no comments in response to D’Arrigo’s accusations about dictatorship, but did comment on other allegations the former councilwoman cited. D’Arrigo said, “It is unbelievable that council members can be that ignorant of what they have done” and called it shameful that “a dictator mayor now rules.” She also predicted that since the three council members, whom she identified as the three elected to their first terms on the governing body in November, approved this ordinance, it will not be long before they also sign away the administrator’s responsibility to answer to the full governing body, instead to enable him to answer to the mayor alone. The ordinance, one of seven which were introduced by the governing body at their organizational meeting in January, calls for a confidential aide to the mayor and administrator to be hired and or fired by the mayor alone, to have the duties dictated by the mayor alone, and to have the terms of hiring be at the mayor’s direction, with no action or opinions from the remaining four members of council. The ordinance passed on its final reading in March, with councilmembers Donald Melnyk, Jo-Anne Olszewski and Kevin Martin and voting in favor of it, along with Mayor Carolyn Broullon and only councilwoman opposed. D’Arrigo said “It is up to Highlands voters whether they want this mayor’s ‘dictatorship’ to continue” noting there are two council seats up for election in November, and voters “hopefully for the sake of Highlands can reverse the poor decision of the three members who don’t understand bipartisanship in a non-partisan town.” In support of her opinions, D’Arrigo cited four primary problems borough residents now face because of the current situation and actions of the governing body. The fact the confidential aide ordinance was introduced at the organization meeting was in itself highly unusual, she said, since “rarely if ever is a majority council of new members called up to change or institute new town laws at their very first meeting.” The new position also means, according to the former councilwoman, that the individual hired and vetted solely by the mayor would not be bound by OPRA laws and would be permitted to discuss town issues only with the mayor, with the public, nor the rest of council, having any access to knowledge of those municipal matter discussions. The Mayor disagreed, but noted the position has not yet been filled, saying “We have not found a candidate for the Assistant position yet. The first meeting of the year was four months ago, the position has been approved by ordinance. Both the Administrator and four members of the Council wanted the position.” D’Arrigo also is critical of the mayor’s decision to continue virtual meetings even when space is available and 100 persons can attend under current Covid guidelines. She cited 17 years of past history when she said she never once saw that many people attend any council meeting. The matter is worse, she continued, since “other public gatherings of more than 100 people are permitted, adding, “this shows the voting public and residents exactly what the mayor thinks of their opinions.” Coupling that with muting of some speakers at public meetings to the announced three minute limit of all public input at council meetings, D’Arrigo said the mayor allows “her friends and nonresidents who favorably follow her personal agendas to speak for ten minutes or longer.” To this, Mayor Broullon said “the clerk times everyone and tells them when their time is up.” D’Arrigo also pointed out that because of the ban on public attending council meetings, the three new council members “have yet to meet the public in person at a council meeting.” Yet, she said, “they regularly meet residents at bars, restaurants or in a park at events . Why is that?” In her comments, Mayor Broullon made it clear she is continuing the present policy of conducting all municipal council meetings virtually. “The maximum number of persons allowed at an indoor gathering as per the Governor's Executive Order is 25 and we all have to be six feet apart. There are five members on Council then with the Clerk and the rest of the professionals, that is another five. That means only 15 other people would be able to come to the meeting. I am uncomfortable to turn anyone away so we will remain remote until indoor requirements are changed by the Governor.” “The residents of this town deserve to be heard in person and not be treated like six year olds,” D’ Arrigo said. “Highlands deserves a better than the hidden agendas of this council of one dictator.”
Read MoreSo, to some people, it still seems it’s all about money. Does anyone honestly feel Brian Williams is worthy of an award presented in honor of an honorable man because he gave money to help save Mater Dei High School? Granted, he had the money to give because he had gained such a great education at Mater Dei and could hold a high paying job, but to be honored after publicly lying, not owning up to it until he was publicly caught at it and trying to put himself out as a hero to men and women who really are heroes is pretty sick. Certainly not the epitome of what Mr. Outwater stood for. And should not be what a catholic high school or anyone with decent morals stands for. Forgiveness is one thing, honoring is something else!
Read MoreI don’t follow Facebook too carefully because I tend to think people are very brave with their opinions when they can hide behind something so odious. But seeing some comments about a civil war between Highlands and Atlantic Highlands brings stupid to a new really low level. Both towns are terrific, both towns have great people, perhaps one of the reasons why so many from one town marry so many from the other. And both towns depend on each other to keep the camaraderie and excellence they both own individually. There’s nothing like the Twin Lights, but then, that magnificent harbor with its park benches offers pretty terrific views as well. There are sensational restaurants in both towns, with a lot of them getting that great seafood from the Lobster Pound. Both are the seats of incredible history nd both have the people who know and are so willing to share all that history. But this week, I certainly hope Highlands leaders take a hint from their neighboring government leaders and put out a similar questionnaire. You see, in Atlantic Highlands, they aren’t afraid for the folks to know what’s going on. In fact, they encourage people to k ow what’s going on. Heck, they not only let people talk more than three minutes at a meeting, they even call on them again if they see they have more to say. Yet, as great as a job they do in communications, Atlantic Highlands wants to do even more. They just put out a questionnaire asking for your opinions…yes, they really want your opinions….on how they can do better. They want to know if they aren’t communicating enough for you, what do you suggest? They want to know if you have any particular disability or problem that keeps you from knowing what’s going on. Then, of all things, they want to fix it!!!! If you’re lucky enough to be living in the borough that wants you to know everything that’s going on and wants to hear from you, no matter how long it takes you to say something, answer their questionnaire. It only takes a minute or so. If everything is perfect for you now, tell them that as well. And if you live in Highlands, why not ask at a public meeting if that council would like to do the same?
Read MoreI should put this in my Braggadoccio column, but I'd rather put it in It Makes me Wonder, because it does make me wonder how Mater Dei can do such a drastic turnaround from the time it taught all of my children and so many others integrity that lasts a lifetime. Honoring Mr. Williams to me looks more like giving a public thanks for generous donations or just aligning with a name better known than most other Seraphs. But this particular award is named for Frank Outwater and there are scores of students, grads, families that remember that outstanding educator and leader, who really did know the meaning of the word integrity and practiced it a lifetime. What a shame Mater Dei has lowered its standards, and so happy Jim has not! The following is a copy of the letter Jim, Mater Dei, Class of 1979, sent to the Administrator this week after learning a liar, although a well known and affluent one, was honored with the Frank Outwater Award. As an Alumni (Class of '79), I am mortified, ashamed, and embarrassed that this organization presented Brian Williams with the Frank Outwater Lifetime Achievement Award. To quote the MC, "This recipient embodies our core values". As graduate of Mater Dei, let me make it perfectly clear, Brian Williams does not embody the core values that I was taught by my parents, reinforced by Mater Dei, and forged as a United States Marine. The MC goes on to list the core values as "faith, family, community service, inclusiveness and integrity". I guess 4 out of 5 isn't bad. Integrity means that you are honest and truthful in what you say or do. You put honesty, sense of duty, and sound moral principles above all else. I am fully cognizant of the fact that memories are flawed, and that a lie requires conscious intent to deceive, or that over time people can confuse an event they experienced with subsequent similar experiences, that their memory may conflate the original experience with stories that they've heard, videos they've seen, or articles they've read. The fog of memory may excuse the question of a lie, but the award is for faith, family, community service, inclusiveness and ***integrity*** Honesty, by definition, is to tell the truth and being true. Integrity is having strong moral principles based on honesty and to follow those principles religiously. Brian Williams, in telling the story of being on an aircraft that was hit by RPG fire in Afghanistan, simply was not being honest because it wasn't true, and therefore lacks the integrity required for this honor.
Read MoreClearly, the tourism bureau of St. Michael’s in Maryland knows how to attract visitors. Coupling a visit here with a most unusual discussion and workshop on crabs aboard American Cruise Lines’ Independence are certainly highlights on a six day cruise on the Chesapeake Bay that was altered somewhat by the Covid situation, but nonetheless filled with wonderful people, making new friends, reviving old ones, great meals aboard a 100 passenger ship reduced to 56 because of Covid, and getting a chance to see how unique the Chesapeake Bay area is. St. Michael’s, which is on Maryland’s Eastern Shore of the Chesapeake, is considered one of the top 10 Best Small Coastal Towns in America and it’s easy to see why, even during a brief stay on a cruise ship. It’s picturesque, filled with history and a harbor and homes that go back more than 500 years. It offers all kinds of festivals and activities throughout the year…upcoming next week is the antique and classic boat festival. There’s the Classic Motor Museum, a weekly Farmer’s Market, a Running Festival in August, a ghost walk, friendly people, and a charming downtown area. Of course there is kayaking, golfing, cycling, canoeing, boating of all kinds, restaurants and bistros, B&Bs and hotels. But best of all, St. Michael’s is home to the Chesapeake Bay Maritime Museum. The Independence docks right in the Museum, an incredibly wonderful 18-acre museum with at least ten different exhibit buildings, all within walking distance of each other, and all offering something unique about the Bay area, the people and the lighthouse. There’s even a working boatyard in the museum, the largest in the nation, a building devoted to Native Americans, one to small boats from crab skiffs to log canoes, of course a lighthouse to climb, another building dedicated to history makers from the 18th century, one to duck decoys, and so much more. In one of the buildings devoted to crabbers, there’s even an exhibit and a place of honor for Capt. Ben Dye, who was born in Monmouth County in 1827, but moved with his family to Perryville in Maryland’s Cecil County when he was a boy and where he lived until his death in 1896. Capt. Dye was best known for his decoys, characteristic because they were all hand-chopped and featured ducks with perfectly flat tails and simple or no wing decorations. My personal favorite is the exhibition building on the very edge of them all, this one devoted to the art of oystering. That exhibit is unique in that the designers of this non-profit educational museum brought a real oyster boat inside, then created life-like models of the boat’s captain and a few working oysterman intent at their craft. The recording doesn’t simply explain what each model is doing; rather it’s a recording of the watermen talking with each other, explaining to a young oysterman the whys and wherefores of every action he takes. It’s realistic and startling when you first walk in, see very lifelike models hard at work and think you’re interrupting an oystering lesson. The Museum has been around since the mid-1960s, and does an outstanding job of meeting its mission to preserve and explore history, the environment and the culture of the Bay area. Certainly worth a weekend trip for the museum along. The Independence certainly takes advantage of Maryland’s pride in its crabs, and native Lori Gross came aboard to lead an afternoon discussion in the ship’s lounge on crabs, crabbing, crab habits, how to catch them, cook then, and eat them. Just to be sure all the guests got it down perfectly, she also brought aboard dozens of freshly caught blue crabs, spread newspapers on the lounge tables in true Maryland style, and led the group in how to pick a crab, what to eat, what to discard, and how to protect your pile of crab meat from a hungry friendly table-mate. Lori, who now spends most of her time in photography and teaching about the Antarctic, convinced Independence guests that picking through the tough shells of crabs is worth the work and the mess. The following day, when the ship was in Annapolis, I chatted with a wholesaler on the dock who went into great detail about the feud between Virginians and Marylanders about crab regulations, where each state’s territory ends in the bay and how Marylanders…he was a native…..are so much more protective of the shellfish than Virginian crabbers. Another joy of cruising. You meet the finest people in the strangest places who want to share their own pride in their own hometown. Next Annapolis and how American Cruise Lines fails.
Read MoreCrisfield is not so well known as some of the other Chesapeake towns like Yorktown and Annapolis, but it’s got its own kind of charm. It’s where you get the ferry to Smith Island if you ever want to visit that really out-of-the-way-perfectly wonderful little piece of a century or more ago but with modern facilities and a great clam museum. The Independence docked right up in the heart of town, and guests had the opportunity to either stroll the streets on their own or take a walking exploration with a guide. Since I’ve been there before, I opted to go it alone and stopped in a few of the gift shops and antique stores simply to pass the time of day with shopkeepers who were happy to see visitors. With fewer than 3,000 people, Crisfield in not really on Chesapeake Bay itself, but rather on Tangier Sound, an arm of the Bay. And it’s located in Maryland’s Somerset County. Rachel was one of several speakers American Cruise Lines invites on the ship to give information and historic stories about the different towns and areas the ship is visiting, as well as some ideas on the variety of shops, monuments, or restaurants in the towns where the ship is docking. On Tangier Bay, she gave a talk on the bay itself, pointed out Smith Island, which she said, is slowing disappearing since it’s an island that sits low in the water, and is challenged by rising waters. Founded in the 1600s, the island was founded by the English and kept to itself for centuries, so today’s inhabitants often can still be heard speaking in old English. An environmentalist, Rhode Islander, graduate of the University of Wisconsin, and a captivating speaker who invites the public to join in, ask questions, and give some facts on their own, Rachel is a wealth of knowledge about the western shore of the Chesapeake, and all the little rivers that are fed with the drainage from the mountains, leaving the water brackish before heading into the large bay and more mixture with salt water. Because of Covid, and though it was a Monday, only three stores, in addition to a couple of eating establishments, within walking distance of the Independence were open, but all three were fun to visit. In the first place, Marylanders are folksy, friendly people and they like to brag about their own little piece of heaven and tell you stories from their points of view. There’s always a fisherman or a boater on the dock, so that’s more friendly conversation about what’s going in and how Covid has affected them. And simply watching the boaters or fishermen is relaxing and always an opportunity to learn. Back on the ship in time for cocktails and conversation before the evening meal. Like all meals on most cruise ships, American Cruise Lines provides top of the line menus, and takes advantage of its cruises on the Chesapeake to ensure lots of seafood, predominately crabs, oysters and lobster from local waters. With only 56 seaboard the 100 passenger ship, there were generally only three entrees for each night’s dinner, generally a chicken, beef and always seafood, but also always a variety of soups, salads, and vegetables to supplement any entrée. And this after a broad array of tantalizing hors d’oeuvres served in the lounge during cocktail hour. ACL proves it simply isn’t possible to go hungry on a cruise. A great chef was aboard the Chesapeake cruise with an ability to think out of the box and try something new. His pan seared salmon, for instance, was served with a tomato jam, aside broccoli rabe served in a lemon butter sauce. The mixed salad included grape tomatoes, carrots and cucumber, and the brisket was braised in beer and served with Texas toast and kettle chips. Another night, there was grilled swordfish with a crab salsa, served with a vegetable pilaf, or a Dijon crusted leg of lamb with a red wine and min demi-glaze. The lobster tail was stuffed with shrimp and crab and served, would you believe, with a beef tenderloin. Cambridge was the next docking address for the Independence fourth day into the cruise, one of the large cities along the Chesapeake with its more than 12,000 residents that also makes it the fourth most populous cities on the eastern shore of Maryland, While the Harriet Tubman museum is the main attraction in this town, and the ACL offered a trip and tour of the museum, I opted instead the Choptank River Lighthouse, once again to talk with local residents about why they love their town so much. It was an education in lighthouses so different from our Twin Lights and Sandy Hook historic sites. Chesapeake lighthouses, because of the nature of the area, are “screwpile” types, neither high nor lofty like our New Jersey beacons, but rather shorter since height is not a necessity y in this area. More unusual, its legs are screwed into the riverbed to keep it steady. The Chop Tank River Lighthouse displayed by an enthusiastic volunteer from the organization that maintains it, isn’t the real thing. It’s a replica of the only lighthouse that was in the bay and served the neighboring states of Maryland and Virginia. It’s small, only 42 feet wide at its broadest, and replicates the one built in 1921 to replace the 1870 wooden schooner that had served as a lightship. The lighthouse sat in the Choptank River for only three years; it had been moved by barge from Virginia to replace another lighthouse that had been destroyed by an ice storm a few years earlier. Like many others, the Choptank light was dismantled and replaced by a Coast Guard buoy in the 20th century. The volunteer told of the loneliness of life on a lighthouse accessible only by water, two miles from land and where the term “white glove test” came from. (in his lonely splendor, the keeper nonetheless had to keep everything spic and span, dust free and spotless, always ready for the inspector who might show up for his white glove test for cleanliness.) The light was fueled by kerosene with a Fresnel lens to shine the light, but the keeper also had a fog bell for the times when even that light could not be seen by mariners. That had a mechanical striker the keeper used to hammer the help, warning vessels of nearby hazards, and enabling them to navigate by sound. Authentic and accurate in its replicated beauty, the lighthouse does have modern additions including a fire sprinkling system and a chair lift so even handicapper visitors can get up to view the area from the windows of the lighthouse. Next; St Michael’s and the Maritime Museum
Read MoreThere is a great intimacy, great camaraderie and great opportunity to meet new friends traveling on river cruises in both the United States and Europe. Several US companies have expanded from only offering these golden opportunities on the Mighty Mississippi, American Cruise Lines among them. Their Independence travels the east coast and by comparison, is one of the smallest of cruise liners that whisk people away for six to 14 days or so of pampering, learning, eating, seeing new and exciting cities and towns, and simply relaxing and enjoying the beauty of the surroundings. It’s got almost all the same amenities as the river cruising ships that accommodate 200 passengers, just in a lesser degree. For instance, there’s one dining room on the first deck, at the ship’s stern, offering fantastic views of the scenery along both shores as well as traffic on the Bay. It’s got a lounge, but only one, on the second deck, and that’s where all the evening entertainment and the daytime games are held. It’s also where cocktail hour starts usually at 5:30, but early visitors to the lounge readily found out that the staff sets up the bar a half hour or so earlier, and has no complaints if guests go up and help themselves. All the third deck rooms have their own great private decks, with a table and chairs to enjoy passing scenery and feel up close to the seagulls and terns flying near by. The top deck is open, a great place to see the captain as he comes out of the second floor wheelhouse to guide the ship to a dock, or simply just to sit and enjoy cool breezes and the sounds of the sea. There’s a mini putting range on this deck as well, and a few pieces of exercise equipment for those who feel the need. At most, the Independence holds 100 passengers, and on a cruise earlier this month, there were only 56 aboard because of Covid restrictions. However, a full complement, or so it seemed, of staff catered to the needs and wishes of each of these 56 guests, and certainly worked their hardest to keep them happy from the time they stepped on the boat in Baltimore until disembarking at the same location after stopping at Yorktown, Crisfield, Cambridge, St. Michael’s and Annapolis. Yorktown is clearly a highlight on the Chesapeake cruise and American Cruise Lines did it almost perfectly. Here again, the ship docks right at the edge of the historic town, and it‘s a walk up the hill to see it on your own. Since it is so full of history, a trolley tour with a local expert obviously proud of her town is the best way to see Yorktown. Yorktown was a pretty exciting place to live in the 1700s, when Williamsburg was the capital of Virginia and there were about 2,000 people living and working in the 250 to 300 buildings around town. Once Richmond became capital, the Revolution was over, and people began seeking other shores, Yorktown diminished in size but certainly not in charm. The battle lasted about 20 days, and was the turning point and last great battle of the Revolution. The guide will point out houses where the gunshots are still embedded in the exterior walls and tell the delightful story of how General Cornwallis did everything he could to avoid surrendering to General Washington, including sending out his second in command to surrender his sword. According to the storyteller, Washington retaliated with the same, sending his second in command to accept it. Eventually, however, Cornwallis did sign the surrender, which ultimately led to the end of the war and the signing of the Treaty of Paris. Yorktown is also the battle where young America depended on its French friends to win the battle, and Lafayette, our own General Nathaniel Greene, and Rochambeau are held in high esteem. There’s a great memorial high on the hill overlooking the town that commemorates the brave French and Americans, together with many Germans who fought for the colonies. The Independence also offered a bus trip to Williamsburg, but four hours in this former capital and wonderfully restored city can only give you a hint of the art, music, history, beauty and warmth that surround Williamsburg. With so many buildings to see, but with Covid restrictions limiting the amount, it was only possible to go into the Governor’s House, magnificent in its splendor and size, the court house, where guides in 18th century garb and 21st century masks looked a bit ludicrous, and the armory with its storage of muskets, gun powder and guides knowledgeable on how to load cannon and use ancient weapons. ACL could have done better by scheduling this stop for a weekday, since Bruton Parish Church, historic for the number of Presidents who worshiped there, is closed to the public Sunday to allow for its five or six religious services. The William and Mary Book Store at the perimeter of the restored area has rows and rows of tables devoted to famous Virginians and Yorktown heroes, from Thomas Jefferson to Alexander Hamilton. Enroute to Williamsburg, the bus passed not only the Yorktown Weapons Station, one of the sister bases to Naval Weapons Station Earle, but also the Museum of American Revolution. One wonders why ACL, in this town where Revolutionary War history was made, did not include a visit to this museum among its tours. Once back on the ship, after cocktails, hors oeuvres and friends talking over the facts they had learned during the day, then dinner, yet the best was still yet to come. In the evening, ACL had invited the local teen Drum and Fife Corps to have a contingent come aboard to entertain its passengers. And entertain they did. Two fifers and a drummer, all teens, all dressed in their official Revolutionary era regalia, all playing instruments of the era, delighted the passengers first with their renditions of music played during the war, then with their explanations of why the music was so important and what each piece signaled, and finally explaining and demonstrating in great detail each instrument and how it is played. A rousing rendition of Yankee Doodle Dandy with guests singing along, finished off an unforgettable day of remembering what it took, and the lives it took, to preserve freedom and begin a new country. Next: Crisfield and Cambridge
Read MoreEven though we have all that spectacular waterfront beauty, those magnificent rivers and ocean, that nation-founding and before history, and our own historic Sandy Hook and Twin Lights lighthouses, there is something equally special about the Chesapeake Bay. And cruising through a good part of it on American Cruise Lines Independence, even while Covid is still impacting the world, is a magnificent and unforgettable experience. A week-long trip last week meant not only reliving some great parts of history, learning more than I ever need to know about crabs and ‘picking,’ and seeing lighthouses like nowhere else, it also included meeting some great people…with only 56 aboard the 100 passenger Independence, you get the opportunity to enjoy the company of all others on the ship. But this trip was made even more special by meeting…on the first day, no less, a charming couple from Port St. Lucie, Fla, whom I knew, talked about, and yes, wrote about, decades ago when they lived in Tinton Falls, and had many active and successful businesses. Enjoying the cruise with Don and Sue Somers was an added bonus to a wonderful week. Don, who had more businesses than most people have credit cards, at one time owned the Paradise Trailer Park on the waterfront while at the same time running the very successful limo, cab, and other businesses in Red Bank. HE and Sue moved from Tinton Falls, settled in Port St Lucie, found another home there they liked even better there and are now a couple of very happy former Monmouth Countians now Floridians. They flew up from their home at the same time I was Amtrak-ing it down from Metro park, and we all shared the last night before the cruise at the super-luxurious, super expensive Four Seasons Hotel at Baltimore Inner Harbor before boarding the cruise ship. American Cruise Lines had made all the arrangements, at our expense, of course, which included an overnight at the hotel, breakfast in the morning, a fantastic guided tour for a couple of hours of Baltimore, all while ACL crew scooped up our luggage, brought it to the ship and had it neatly placed in our rooms by the time we got there at the end of the tour. Of course there was all manner of liquid and appetizing refreshments in the main room to give us 56 passengers an opportunity meet each other, chat about where we’re from, why we were on this specific cruise, and what we were looking forward to. But let’s just start with the Baltimore tour. The city, at least parts of it, has changed one heck of a lot from the days when it was downright shabby, dirty, not very appealing and certainly with little regard for the huge history that envelops it. I’m sure those areas still exist, but certainly not on the bus tour. Instead, the magnificent Inner Harbor houses history in such ships as the Sloop Constellation, made in part from pieces of the Frigate Constellation which played an earlier role in American history. The sloop on display, however, is the last of its kind built by the United States Navy. Not far from it is the Sub Torsk, the 1944 submarine that housed 80 sailors in spaces so small they had to walk sideways to get through passageways, and the only one of its kind to serve in World War II. Today, it is both a museum and a memorial. The lighthouse in the harbor is an 1856 light, not very high, and not very bright compared to the Fresnel lens in the Twin Lights, but hearty and strong for the Inner Harbor. Baltimore is also so proud of so many of its native sons and others who chose to call it home while making headlines. Edgar Allan Poe’s home is on display, and they like him so much there that every October there’s a huge festival in his honor. Frederick Douglas is another personage highly revered and recalled in a museum, as is the famous Carroll family. They’re also proud to be home to the bakery that provides the rolls for all the McDonald’s restaurants along the east coast and the conversion of its many canneries into modern day office and residential buildings. Churches abound in Baltimore, many of which are pointed out on the tour, but none is as large or magnificent as the Cathedral of the Shrine of the Blessed Virgin Mary, a mouthful to say or write, and better known these days as the Baltimore Cathedral. It was built soon after the Constitution guaranteeing religious freedom in America was signed, and Catholics wanted it to be large and beautiful as a way of showing they were finally getting the freedom to practice their religion without fear of penalty. It was designed by Thomas Jefferson’s architect, Benjamin Latrobe, the same brilliant mind who designed the US Capitol, and at the time of its construction, rivaled the Capitol in size and design. Built in the neoclassical style, since the church wanted to accent its acceptance in America, it appears more to be a federal building rather than religious, with its clear pane windows rather than the traditional stained glass of churches. The first Cathedral of any religion built in the United States, it took 15 years to construct, had John Carroll, the cousin of the Declaration as its bishop and was considered the most advanced building of its era. There are numerous museums to the many different ethnic groups that call Baltimore home, including black Americans, Irish Americans, Jewish Americans and many more. Baltimore is a city of museums and ethnic pride, together with a healthy respect for all the beer for which it’s famous, and crab houses for the state treasured shellfish. Fort McHenry is a story onto itself. Because of Covid restrictions, while the tour bus stopped and offered brief walks around some of the 42 acres of the national historic site, the museum itself is closed. While that huge American flag that flew over Fort McHenry is now housed in temperature and light controlled exhibition at the Smithsonian in Washington, it’s still stirring to step on the land where the flag flew in all its glory for Francis Scott Key to see from his ship the morning after the British bombed the fort in an unsuccessful attempt to take it over. Inspiring enough for the national anthem words to be written during the War of 1812, it’s still inspiring to be on the site. The tour bus made a final pass past Baltimore’s Washington Monument, the 178 foot high Doric column designed by Robert Mills who later went on to design the nation’s 555 foot tall Washington Monument. It was built on donated land in the heart of Baltimore and if you’re game for the 227 spiral staircase steps, it offers a spectacular view of the city. Back at the Harbor, guests were met at the pier by ACL staff who introduced us all to the ship, our home for the next six nights, and a tour of historic and beautiful Chesapeake Bay. NEXT: The ship, the crew, and Yorktown, Va.
Read MoreCovid! It even has made booking a cruise less fun and more difficult! Booking a cruise on one of the wonderful and spectacularly beautiful rivers and bays of the United States is always a thrill. Actually taking it is so much more. And having cruised on both American Queen and American Cruise lines several times on the Mississippi, as well as the Columbia and Snake rivers and going through the Pacific Northwest following the Lewis and Clark trail from the Mississippi west, it seemed like the best way to beat Covid-depression, get away from indoor activities, strengthen my mind and learn something new. It is the best thing to do, I did it. So now I am preparing for another cruise, and I’m working my way through all the changes Covid has meant. Though I’ve visited many historic and entertaining sites, to say nothing of military installations, in both Maryland and Virginia, the states still hold great allure for me and there’s always so much more to learn. So a tour on the Chesapeake Bay of some sites in both states, together with one or two of the islands in the Bay seemed like a great idea. Besides, with the ship leaving Baltimore, it is easily accessible by Amtrak from Metropark and a cab ride to the Four Seasons hotel, the luxurious hotel American Cruise Lines makes accommodations for you for the night before the cruise. BUT Covid has added something to the planning. New regulations. New rules to follow, literally wherever you go. Amtrak’s rules are different from Maryland’s, Maryland’s are different from Virginia’s, and all are different from American Cruise Lines. On the plus side, there’s no doubt absolutely nothing will be crowded, there will not be any long lines to wait in to get into some attractions, and you’re practically positively assured everything everywhere in all your accommodations, both on land and on travel, will be pristine and spotlessly clean. On the ship, with the total number of passengers reduced by 25 per cent, you’re sure to meet everyone with whom you’re cruising someplace along the way. On ships that only accommodate fewer than 200 passengers regularly, that means fewer than 149 others will be on board with me. While I feel certain the employees will also be reduced in keeping with the fewer ship guests, I’m sure there will still be plenty to pamper each customer and fill every need. There will still be all manner of recreation aboard, from music and entertainment to lectures and games. The daily visits to attractions in the ports where the ship docks will continue to be great fun, with perhaps coach transportation instead of busses from pier to sightseeing site, be it the Naval Academy or a museum. Ships already well known for their spectacular meals and overabundance of foods of all kinds won’t change either. Also on the plus side, every state still requires face masks, as do all modes of transportation, so you’re ready and prepared for that. But Covid has made it necessary to learn so much more. Take Amtrak for instance. Besides the mask requirement for every passenger and employee….I must check to see whether the engineer seated by himself in the cab also has to wear one…..Amtrak makes it clear, in no uncertain terms, that mask better stay in place both in the station and on the train. They even warn you..the masks better not have any mesh or holes of any kind, they can’t be bandanas and they must cover nose and mouth. To be sure you know they mean business, Amtrak also warns you they’re following federal laws, and violators are subject to penalties, which could include being denied admittance to a train, being removed from a train, and …drum roll here!!! Being banned from future travel! If you already have a reservation, and you exhibit any symptoms, they also suggest you call Julie, their telephone connection, and she will help you cancel your reservation and make another for the future. Amtrak isn’t taking any chances. Then there’s the ship itself! They aren’t requiring customers to have had vaccines, but they are strongly suggesting them. And just saying you have been vaccinated isn’t enough; they will ask for proof such as that little cards that gives the dates and type.m They’re obeying shoreside regulations wherever they go which should be kind of interesting and test their versatility. They’re even having a Medical Officer aboard every ship to ensure testing as you go aboard, and identification of any positivity during the cruise. In fact, the ships all have a few rooms set aside just in case they need one or more for isolation. For those who are not vaccinated, they are required to be tested four days before the beginning of their cruise, and only NAAT or PCR tests will be accepted. Of course the usual pristine accommodations are more so, there will be constant cleaning going on, and plenty of opportunities for hand washing and cleansing. While masks, they say must be worn at all times, I can only hope they’re off for meals. There should not be many changes in visiting the on land sites. Both Maryland and Virginia require masks and the six foot distances, though it’s interesting that Virginia’s regulations call for the outdoor masks only when you cannot keep six feet away from another. In Maryland, all the shops and businesses are open, and the six foot mandate is required. Is it worth it? Of course it is. There’s the comfort of knowing the need to prevent spreading of the disease is important. There’s comfort in seeing how cleanliness is such a vital factor. But there’s a distinct thrill and a quiver of excitement in looking forward to a week or so in a new environment, on a ship that knows how to pamper well, with people who are bound to be happy and eager to share that happiness. I’m looking forward to it. I can hear the laughter in the air already.
Read MoreWhoever said the joy of the journey is in the journey itself must have taken the Auto Train. It’s the only way you can get from the Northeast to Florida on a tank of gas. The Auto-Train, the only one of its kind in the world, at three-quarters of a mile long, the longest passenger train in the world, and the most relaxing way to get between the north east and the Sunshine State, is the non-stop ride that takes you and your vehicle, be it sedan, motorcycle, or SUV, from Lorton, Va. to Sanford, Florida. From there, you’re on your own to points further north or south. But a ride on the Auto-Train means beginning the vacation as soon as you step into the designed especially for the Auto-Train station in Lorton. You check your vehicle at the door, take a carry-on bag of essentials for overnight, and begin to relax. Your vehicle is taken by trained crew members and driven into the two-level enclosed rail cars where, along with the other up to 330 cars making the same trip, it is secured in place for the journey south. At the same time, you’re welcomed into the passenger cars, and depending on whether you opt for a lounge seat or a Superliner Deluxe bedroom, or something in-between, settle into your assigned quarters. It’s the same for the trip north to Lorton, where the station is located immediately adjacent to I-95.. Trains in both directions leave their respective stations at 4 in the afternoon, scheduled to arrive at their destinations 17 hours, 30 minutes later at 9:30 the following morning. You’re requested to arrive at least 60 minutes in advance of departure time, and it takes about an hour on average for all the vehicles to be unloaded and get you on your way at the opposite end. IN between, there are lounge and dining cars, regardless of whether you opt for a seat or a bedroom, movies in the evening, practically always a wine tasting at departure, and a three course dinner complete with wine, all included in the price of the ticket. For those who opt for lounge seats, it means stretching out in the recliner and using the blanket and pillow they provide, or, if you want the extra baggage, carry on your own. Bathrooms are located on the lower level of each car, and fresh fruit, coffee and cookies are generally provided in the lounge car. A full bar is also accessible. Dinner menu offers a choice of five dishes, always including a vegetarian, chicken, beef, and fish entree, with a chef’s special. For those who opt for the Superliner bedrooms, coffee is always available in each car, the deluxe rooms are made for two, have private bathrooms with a mini-shower built in, and the five dinner entrees in the Superliner passenger dining room often include filet mignon along with gourmet chicken dishes. There’s still fresh fruit and cookies in the lounge car. The roomettes are built for two, snug and without a private bath, but providing privacy and comfort. There are also family bedrooms, which sleep two adults and two children in one room, and accessible bedrooms which accommodate two adults and are on the lower level, available on every train. Besides the comfort of travel, there’s the beauty of the passing scenery. Before the sun sets heading north, you’ll leave Florida, pass through Georgia’s oldest city, Savannah, and if everything’s on time, cross the state line into South Carolina. Just before dark, then whiz through Charleston and Florence, SC, as well as the home of the 82nd Airborne at Ft. Bragg, NC. If you’re a light sleeper, you’ll know the train stops for a half hour or so at Florence, SC for a change of engine crew, fueling and watering. If you’re an early riser, the charm of Virginia, from Petersburg, where a famous battle of the Civil War was waged, to Quantico, the home of the US Marine Corps and an FBI training facility, are worth seeing from the large train windows. The railroad runs right smack dab down the middle of several communities, including Ashland, so the slower speed gives you ample time to admire the gracious old Victorian mansions, the busy main street, and picturesque Randolph-Macon College. As spectacular as the scenery is, it’s the folks you meet traveling by train that set this mode of transportation above all the rest. Dining room tables are all set for four, so you’re bound to sit with other interesting people. It’s always fascinating to see where they’re from, where they’re heading and what they like best about rail travel. Surprisingly, there are a plethora of college kids who opt for Amtrak, some because they are afraid to fly, others because it’s an easy way to get all their stuff, crammed into their cars, between home and campus. If there is a major disadvantage to the Auto-Train it’s the fact it travels over rails owned by CSX railroad, which means freight frequently has the right-of-way and the Auto-Train is put on a siding to give access to CSX equipment. This occasionally means delays at arrival; on the occasions late arrivals are four hours late or more, the ingenious kitchen crew aboard whips up lunch for all. Cost of the Auto-Train sounds expensive on the surface, but considering it includes dinner and breakfast, that wine tasting and wine with dinner, the constant coffee and fruit and muffins, and comfortable sleeping accommodations, it isn’t too bad. Add to that the high cost of fuel, particularly if you’re traveling alone, and it could even represent a bargain. Like the airlines, prices vary according to the time of year and the availability; generally, the earlier you reserve, the cheaper you’ll get it. Amtrak often offers a special, sometimes allowing kids to travel free with adults. Any way you look at it, it’s worth a call to 1-800-USA-RAIL to learn more about a Vacation to a Vacation.
Read MoreIt was four years ago I spent a week aboard America Cruise Line’s paddle wheeler America , but the memories last a lifetime, and the knowledge gained from experts like Bill Wiemuth on the Mississippi River and Bertram Davis, great great grandson of Confederate States President Jefferson Davis, on the Civil War is sheer luxury. Still, the cruise line had one final offer for its satiated and contented customers….a brief tour of New Orleans with an unforgettable stop at a cemetery. Cemeteries in New Orleans are truly cities of the dead, with their vast above ground tombs lined up on either side of the streets, the vaults holding the remains of everyone from Voodoo priestess Marie Leveau to long ago mayors and a pioneer in the sugar industry, Etienne de Bore. Clearly the most popular cemetery in town is St. Louis No. 1 (there are 3) which has been actively accepting the remains of Louisianans since 1789. It’s a complete city block in size, with more than 700 tombs and more than 100,000 bodies in them. Listed on the National Registry of Historic Places, St. Louis #1 is reportedly haunted…no surprise there….and a popular tourist attraction with guides who spiel out delightfully entertaining stories as they weave among the vaults and point out famous family names. A block away from the famed French Quarter of this exciting, colorful and in many ways deviant city that firmly believes in letting the good times roll, St. Louis #1 cemetery tour guides will show you the sealed vaults, the smaller sealed vault tucked away in a corner of the big monument and how each can be opened and re-sealed again to prevent flood waters from getting inside. The smaller doors to a corner of the vault serve another purpose. Each vault only holds one or two bodies, so when the next family member dies, the vault is opened, the remains of the last entombed which by now have turned to dust, are packed away carefully in a small container and reinterred in the little vault in the corner of the bigger one. Kind of an early version of cremation, but explains how more than 100,000 bodies can be buried in a sacred place the size of a city block. If two or three family members die before the first deceased’s body has disintegrated, families simply ask a neighbor if they can borrow their vault for a year or so. Benjamin Latrobe, architect of the US Capitol, also designed a part of St. Louis Cathedral in New Orleans’s Jackson Square and was working on the engineering design for a new waterworks project in New Orleans when he died of yellow fever. His son had died of the same disease three years earlier, and both are entombed in the cemetery. The burial ground is owned by the Catholic diocese and entry is limited to tour groups with storytellers who have been approved by the Bishop. Family members or genealogists can get special permits to enter and walk through the cemetery unattended. Jackson Square is exciting regardless of the hour of day or night, with swarms of people in all manner of dress and habits dancing, playing musical instruments, reading tarot cards, telling fortunes, selling voodoo dolls, all kinds of food, drink and strange smelling cigarettes, painting and selling caricatures or portraits, or simply sitting around watching everyone else. With St. Louis Cathedral the focal point of the Square, it isn’t unusual to see a bride and groom and their entire wedding party and guests come out of the Catholic cathedral and dance their way, complete with anything from a violinist to a mariachi band, through the Square to the applause and congratulations of happy strangers. Many of the brides carry white lace umbrellas and all their guests wave white linen cloths as they wend their way past tourists, artists, booths and stalls throughout the Square. Café du Monde, the open always café best known for its strong coffee and very special beignets, is only a short distance from the Square, but with lines of tourists waiting hours to sit and enjoy those fried donuts, it’s simply not worth the walk. Back in Jackson Square, two of the state’s museums, each dedicated to a different phase of the Pelican State’s history and lore, flank the still active Catholic cathedral where tourists wander up and down the aisles eyeing the statues and architecture, but are respectful and quiet during mass or other religious services. Excellent restaurants abound. Finding an outstanding restaurant in the Square with spectacular French and Creole cuisine was not a surprise. Finding one named Muriel’s was. And finding Muriel’s had a fascinating ghost in residence, complete with his story, as well as an upstairs outdoor balcony for sipping cocktails overlooking the excitement below made it irresistible. According to local lore, a wealthy man named Pierre Antoine Lepardi bought the property in the 1800s and refurbished the 18th century house to its original grandeur, loving not only the work it involved but the house itself. Pierre also had a thirst for gambling and lost the house in a poker game in 1814. So distraught was he over the loss, the story goes, he committed suicide on the second floor in what is now Muriel’s Séance Room. The room is elegant, rich in colorful fabrics, period furnishings and magnificent large framed paintings. But as much as I sat on the settee quietly in the eerily lit room and listened, inviting company and willing to take my chances on whether he would be friendly, I never heard a peep or got a glimpse of Monsieur Lepardi. The view from the balcony was sheer fun; the later dinner in the downstairs dining room, however, was spectacular. There’s a lot to be said for sampling Bouillabaisse, a combination of shrimp, mussels, crab meat, seafood meatballs and andouille sausage served in a sweet vermouth tomato broth, or shrimp and grits, seasoned with leeks and smoked tomato butter sauce and garlic. Finish it with a Gorgonzola cheesecake with honeyed pecans and slices of tart green apple and you find Muriel’s is as gourmet as it is mysterious. Even better. When the hostess, who runs a very tight, well-organized but very friendly staff, learns a real life Muriel is a dining guest, she presents her with a special labeled bottle of Muriel’s hot sauce. A great souvenir of a magnificent trip south
Read MoreSeveral readers have asked that I write some stories about how my husband and I decided to give up full time jobs, a home, a 14-room house in Highlands, being close to our children, and spending ten years traveling throughout the 50 states. Let me start by staying it was the most wonderful ten years of my life. It really started when we were young, were on moderate income and had four children we wanted to see the country, vacation, and enjoy a different way of life. During those incredibly wonderful years we first had a tent, later a ten trailer, and we packed all three, later, four kids, Freckles, our wonderful mixed breed dog, and us into those cramped but cozy quarters and set out to blend family life, new experiences a bit of learning and lots of excitement into a couple of weeks every year. I remember the warmth of campfires as the kids roasted marshmallows, the thrill of catching lobster in Marathon Florida then cooking it over a campfire, the joy of hearing another camper singing Georgia on my Mind as he accompanied himself on the guitar and we all huddled together enjoying new friends. I remember the kids running wild over open fields in New York state, walking on trails in the White Mountains of New Hampshire and making their way through caverns in the Shenandoah mountains of Virginia. I remember White Sands, New Mexico and of course the Must-Stop at South of the Border on the way to Florida. So many happy memories with a family filled with so much love, not only for each other, but for sharing new experiences. The kids grew up, moved on, started their own families and we continued to work, with a life filled with happy memories. So in 1995, after Jimmy recovered miraculously well after four heart attacks, an angioplasty, catherization and quintuple bypass all within 60 hours, we decided God was giving us a message we should change our lifestyle. It was easy to decide what we should do, given all those happy memories with the family. For our 40th wedding anniversary that year, we bought us a 30 foot Flair, a bus-type RV that included a bedroom, bath, living-dining room -kitchen and driving quarters, left our home in the hands of our son and grandson, threw ourselves a going away party and took off. We had no plans where we were going or how or when we would get there. Open road, new adventures, lots of relaxation, plenty of time to learn, enjoy each other’s company, and see as much of the United States as we could were our focus. We carried an atlas with us and a campground guide and after a couple of days of wandering around the familiar areas of New Jersey and Pennsylvania, we hit on a plan: as soon as we arrived in a new state, we would stop at the visitor’s center, pick up all the brochures they had to offer, find a campground close by, pick up a bottle of wine, and settle in for a night or two or three always around 4 in the afternoon. We’d set up our site, put a couple of chairs and a table under the awning outside, poured that glass of wine and begin poring through the brochures. That usually took until well past dark, so we moved back inside, put dinner on to cook and finished reviewing the brochures. By the time dinner was ready, we had decided which attractions, museums, campgrounds, we wanted to see and visit. And that’s how we decided how long we would spend in any one campground. Once we saw everything we wanted to see there, we would pack up, perhaps stop at a grocery store for more supplies, and move on to the next part of the state, or the next state. We learned early some planning made life much easier for us. Jimmy, during his convalescence from all the cardiac procedures, had spent a lot of time watching cooking shows on tv and decided not only did he like to cook, but he was also really good at it! In the few months between his recuperation and our taking to the road, and while I was still working, he would do all the cooking. So it was natural for him to continue it on the road, whether we were cooking over a woodfire outside or the little stove in the RV. The planning part came over more glasses of wine at that kitchen table as we talked about what we wanted for dinner each night. If we were along a coast, we knew we wanted seafood and would wait until we got there to make purchases. But we would plan each meal, pack in the groceries necessary for that week’s menus…..RV refrigerators in the 1990s had limited size freezers so planning became really essential… and stock up before we left in the morning for our next day of travel. It worked perfectly, because we never knew exactly where we would end up that night…..there might be a fair going on in a town along the way we stopped to stop and visit, or a park with some walking paths we thought we’d try. But by 4 p.m. we knew we would stop, have plenty of time to set up our site and still enjoy a leisurely and excellent dinner. It didn’t take many days to put behind us the drudgery of working every day, the routine of taking care of a big house, and the realization we really didn’t need all the accoutrements we had collected, enjoyed and saved through the years. Life in an RV is an exciting experience! Doing it for a decade is a dream come true!
Read MoreTunnels are feats of engineering at any level, above or below ground, underwater or high in the mountains. But seeing and going through the more than three dozen tunnels cut through the Rocky Mountains for railroad engines is an unforgettable experience. Traveling on Amtrak’s California Zephyr through Colorado gives you an entirely new awe and appreciation for engineers, both the train-driving railroad kind and those who design highways, bridges and tunnels. Seeing the rocky, rugged, oft snow-covered mountains, dipping into the deep and gorgeous chasms, sitting in lounge cars with ceilings made of glass so you can see the tops of the mountains as the train curves gently, and slowly, through the middle or higher of them and then suddenly thrust into the utter blackness of a tunnel in spite of sun-filled skies gives you a little insight into both how gorgeous the United States truly is and how brilliant the minds, how hard the work of laborers, how fortunate we are to have all of that in our lives. Most of the 31 tunnels you pass through on the Zephyr within the approximate 1,000 miles of Colorado you pass through between its Nebraska and Utah lines are short, all with numbered openings that reflect the order in which they were built, not necessarily the order they come along the route. There are a few more tunnels as you continue through the Wasatch Mountains while traveling the roughly 500 miles through Utah before arriving in Nevada. Regardless, the Moffet Tunnel is the piece de resistance, if you will. Built in the 1920s around the same time the Holland and Lincoln tunnels were under construction in New Jersey, the tunnel had been the dream and idea of banker Daniel Moffet from the early 1900s. His purpose was to establish a shorter quicker way from Denver to points west, but designs, engineers, feuds among legislators and lack of funds kept putting off construction for more than 20 years. And though Mr. Moffet died a millionaire, he unfortunately never lived to see the realization of his dream. In contrast to the Holland and Lincoln tunnels, both about a mile and a half long, the Moffet Tunnel is six miles long! It takes ten minutes to pass through, given the engineer goes at between 30 and 40 miles an hour into the pitch darkness. It’s rather like spelunking in a deep cave in the Blue Ridge Mountains, only on the train it’s the headlight that cuts through blackness rather than a small light on a helmet. Passengers seem to take the trip in a hushed silence, whether in wonder or reverence, since conversation came to a halt as the train entered the tunnel. The Tunnel crosses the Continental Divide, that line signifying the water basins of North America, where all the rivers west of it flow to the Pacific, and those east of it empty into the Atlantic ocean. We had crossed the Mississippi river at the point it separates Illinois from Iowa, and the Missouri, the nation’s longest river, where it separates Iowa from Nebraska. We went from central to mountain time when we crossed from Nebraska into Colorado and could feel and see how the train was climbing once we left Denver. Passing through the Moffet Tunnel we reached the highest point above sea level, approximately 10,000 feet. And there’s one more treat for the eyes when you emerge from the tunnel into bright sunlight. While on the east side of the tunnel, the rugged mountains were absent of snow earlier this month, their multi-hued brownish coarseness and rugged curves dotted with pines and many other evergreens, suddenly there’s snow filled terrain, ski resorts, and even a ski aerial lift directly over the tracks, strange to see from a train, but must be even more strange for a skier passing over a locomotive on her way to the top of the mountain! They say the Upper and Lower Gore canyons in Colorado are dramatic to see, accessible only by rail or kayak, and indeed they are. But as you go through the canyons alongside the Colorado River, pass through Fraser which earns its name as the Icebox of America because it never experiences a frost-free season but where they say the fishing for all kinds of trout is unparalleled, and Granby, the Gateway to Rocky Mountain National Park, you’re reaching Dotsero, the half way point of the trip between Chicago and San Francisco. You pass through New Castle, a former coal mining town where several mine explosions led to the end of the trade. But a fire still smolders inside and deep down in the mountain because of so many underground explosions from the high level of methane gas. Today, in true American custom and the spirit of rising above grief and destruction, there’s an annual Burning Mountain Festival held in New Castle every autumn.
Read MoreWhile seeing the United States traveling on any train is a great way to explore the diversity that’s always on display here, the awe doesn’t really start until you leave Denver, Colorado, and begin to climb even higher into the Rocky Mountains! Denver may well be the Mile High city, but that’s only a couple of hundred feet over 5,000 feet. The California Zephyr climbs another 5,000 feet and you can see and feel it happening as you leave this city with its beautiful houses track-side and its distant view of rugged, rocky mountains. Rockies snow distance But there are sights before then! The Zephyr, officially train 5 westbound, is named for the Greek God of the west wind, the gentlest of all winds and the harbinger of spring; there’s no doubt riding on this can literally blow you away with awe at the beauty of it all. It’s also the name of the original train ride once known as the most talked about train in America back in the 1940s when it was operated jointly by at least three different railroads. Now strictly an Amtrak train, it makes the trip once a day between Chicago and Emeryville, California, and from there, a short bus ride to San Francisco. Not wanting to step foot into a sanctuary city, I opted to get off in Sacramento, about 85 miles northeast and the capital of the state since the Gold Rush of the 1840s. Today‘s Zephyr isn’t as luxurious or elegant as the Pullman cars of the past, but it’s so much more efficient, so much quieter and smoother, and of course, given the absence of coal-fired steam engines, so much cleaner. Very much like the Capitol Limited to Chicago, there are both coach and roomette cars, a lounge and dining room shared by customers in both, a downstairs area in the lounge car for snacks, sandwiches and breakfast pastries and beverages. Roomettes, for one or two persons, are two comfortable facing seats in front of large windows, and small storage area for a suitcase as well as an area to support beverages or snacks. At night, another bed drops down from above, and the two seats convert to a lower bunk, all comfortable, fitted with clean sheets and blankets, and several pillows. There are both overhead and reading lights and an intercom they say provides music, though I‘ve yet to find one that’s operable. Bathrooms are either down the hall or down a flight of stairs where a shower room is also located. The larger, more expensive bedrooms for two or more have a small private bathroom within. Rockies dry side Leaving the Windy City, you travel alongside the Chicago River heading to Naperville, an old city with new high-tech companies making it also an affluent family-oriented community. Then it’s on through Aurora, Illinois’ second largest city, Princeton, Kewanee, Galva Galesburg and…. not the same as ours, but…..Monmouth, the birthplace of Wyatt Earp. It’s about 170 miles outside Chicago that you cross the mighty Mississippi, the nation’s second longest river and enter Iowa where you’ll pass farms, small communities, lots of cattle, and horses, in spite of freezing temperatures, and see 300 miles of Iowa before entering Nebraska about 11 at night. Since the train’s regular smooth motion is great for sleeping, admittedly, I didn’t see any of the 500 miles we passed through that state before arriving in Colorado just before dawn. Nor did the stops at five different stations, including both Omaha and Lincoln, disturb my sleep, even though some station stops are dearly sought after by smokers who want to step off for a few puffs. They already know at the beginning, and are frequently reminded as well, that there’s no smoking allowed anyplace on the train under assurances the guilty will be escorted off at the next station. Arriving at Colorado just after 7 in the morning, passengers have an extra hour going west, since the Nebraska/Colorado state line is the change from Central to Mountain time. It’s a delightful full day to start out going through the Rocky Mountain Arsenal National Wildlife Refuge, once an area where chemical weapons were manufactured but since the 1980s a 15,000 acre refuge where you might get to see your first bald eagle sitting erectly high in one of the barren trees. Not far from there is another site that could make you swear off eating beef, once you see all the cattle in the pens waiting for their last ride before going to market. Rockies snow distance It’s leaving Denver that the ohhs and ahhs begin in profusion. For the next 300 miles, there’s nothing but natural beauty, climbing the Rockies, traveling alongside the Colorado River, and passing through cliffs and canyons, to say nothing of tunnels and plains. The splendor and beauty continues throughout the day, and continues into Utah when you cross the line into that state around dinner time. In many areas, the natural beauty is untouched by so much as a road, the mountains so close at times you feel you can tough them. It’s when most people are enjoying not only friendly conversation but sharing the beauty of the moment as they gather in the lounge car to see the side of the mountains directly in front of them, the soaring tops of them through the overhead glass domes of the car. The trip is made even better when volunteers from the National Park Service or railroad history clubs come aboard and point out historic sites and other points of interest along the way. With so much to see, so much to absorb, so much to admire, it’s impossible to soak it all in.
Read MoreThere is no doubt about it. I’ve been mesmerized by trains by entire married life. Oh, it wasn’t all fun and games, and I didn’t always like it. Growing up in Union County, I didn’t have much interaction with trains. It was easier to hop on a bus to Port Authority in New York or take the Number #8 bus to go to Elizabeth to shop in Goerke’s or visit Humes Music Store. As kids, we never took a train anyplace; family vacations to the White Mountains of New Hampshire were by car, two days of travel, an overnight in Connecticut and arriving at this magical wonderful Burroughs Farm in Twin Mountain, NH early afternoon the second day. It was exciting. But then I married a fireman on the railroad. Jimmy, like his dad, worked for the Pennsylvania Railroad. It was a time when you hired out you hired as a fireman…and yes, there were steam engines, and yes, Jimmy really did shovel coal and sweat by the fire pit even on the coldest days. It would be years until he had the seniority to be ‘promoted’ to engineer. In between, the PRR became the Penn Central Railroad, the government stepped in and Conrail became the ‘freight’ railroad, and firemen and engineers had their choice…did they want to be Conrail engineers or Amtrak engineers, the new government railroad. Jimmy was already an engineer and he chose Amtrak, he liked running passenger trains, liked the trips to Washington, D.C, layovers in Philadelphia where he could visit museums before bringing another train back to New York, and liked the fact we would then have passes to travel wherever Amtrak ran. Even then, we never took many train trips. Jimmy didn’t want to spend his time off as a passenger on a train another engineer was running. Even with passes, we never got to take our children cross country, or even to the nation’s Capital by train. Jimmy believes the train was for work, not for pleasure. And he worked hard for his pay. At the time, there were no sick days, no holidays, no days off. If you didn’t work, you simply didn’t get paid. So he was very healthy all those years we were raising four children and putting them in tuition paid Catholic schools. He called in sick for our daughter’s cheerleading meets, our son’s Pop Warner games. Looking back, I’m so happy he had the option and we both recognized enjoying our kids’ activities beat a bigger paycheck any day. My train trips while Jimmy was alive were glorious when I took them. Often, when Jimmy had a run to Washington, DC, a four or five hour layover there, and another trip back to New York. I could go as a passenger, meet him at Union Station, and we could spend a couple of hours visiting the Smithsonian and having lunch in one of the Capitol’s restaurants before boarding his train for our trip back home. I loved it, and so loved the Smithsonian and visited every building, in addition to the Library of Congress and the Capitol many times. We took several trips after the Auto Train came into being, driving to Lorton, Virginia, boarding the train and watching them board our car, for the overnight trip to Florida, then reclaiming our vehicle and moving on to wherever we were going. Wonderful trips. After Jimmy’s death, both to memorialize him and our happy memories, and to travel….so easy to travel by train when you’re a lone woman traveler…I knew I wanted to take the train across the country! At least once! I ended up doing it more than that. I took one trip to New Orleans since I was also taking a cruise sailing out of there. What better way to start a cruise on the Mississippi than by taking the train to the boat! t was an opportunity to see the beauty and wonder of America through 11 states and Washington, D.C. There simply isn’t anything that can compare! Boarding in New York…Amtrak’s Crescent is one of the few long distance East Coast trains that doesn’t stop at Metro Park…you whiz through New Jersey, Philadelphia, Delaware and Maryland before stopping for a few minutes in Washington, D.C where dozens more board for the trip South through Virginia, the Carolinas, Georgia, Alabama, Mississippi and final stop, New Orleans. Rather than the straight line south leaving the nation’s Capital, the Crescent travels west through Virginia, giving riders the opportunity to ride through the foothills of the Blue Ridge Mountains, smack through the middle of towns like Manassas and Culpeper, Jefferson’s Charlottesville, before moving on through High Point and Charlotte in North Carolina, touching on Spartanburg and Clemson in South Carolina, and on to the beautiful city of Atlanta, Georgia. Alabama’s small towns along the route include Anniston, where Anniston Army Depot, a huge Army installation with dozens of tanks lining a perimeter near the railroad, Birmingham and Tuscaloosa, home of the University of Alabama, then on to Meridian, Picayune and more in Mississippi before pulling into the Festival City of the World, New Orleans. The Crescent is the only Amtrak train that makes this route, and timing of the trains going north and south makes it possible to see different towns by night and day. Heading south, you’re just about entering Virginia at dusk, and sleeping your way through the Carolinas, with the sun rising over Georgia and an evening arrival New Orleans. On the return trip, it’s daylight from New Orleans through Georgia, then sleeping once again through the Carolinas, and daylight through the beautiful western side of Virginia and the upper Southern states for a noon-time or so arrival in New York. Accommodations aboard Amtrak are delightful, whether you opt for coach, sleeping cars, or, in between, business class accommodations which mean more space, quiet and comfort than the more popular and less expensive coaches, but still a lower cost and privacy than the private miniature cabins for two. All classes of travel on the Crescent enjoy the same dining room and lounge cars, and seats in both coach and business allow plenty of room for stretching out and lying flat. In recent years, I’ve traveled overnight both ways, in coach and in a private bedroom. Both have distinctive benefits. The coach seats are far less expensive, the seats are wide, big and lay back, and you can bring pillows or blankets for added comfort at night. You have the joy of meeting other travelers, making new friends, and everyone is polite and quite throughout the sleep hours when the lights are dimmed. The private cars of course give you all the privacy you want, two seats and a table for playing games, reading, or holding a glass of wine, and a porter who comes in and converts those two seats to a most comfortable bed at night., You meet your new friends in the dining room where the menu always has a minimum of five entrees and great desserts. It’s elegance on wheels. On the Crescent, it’s in Georgia in the right season, when you first see spring has arrived in the South, with magnolias in bloom, violet and white wisteria blowing gently in the breeze along tree limbs, and dogwood and bulb flowers adding brilliant colors to an already beautiful scenery. As in most large cities, the train stations are right in the heart of things, so it’s always an inexpensive cab ride to hotels of all price ranges, and museums, shops, restaurants and other entertainment you can start enjoying immediately. After all, it was a most relaxing, enjoyable, and scenic trip to get there.
Read MoreSeeing former LT. Governor Kim Guadagno at the wonderful gala at the Shore Casino Thursday night for Assemblywoman Serena DiMaso was not a surprise to anyone who knows how the gracious and enthusiastic Kim is always right there to support those in whom she believes. She reminded everyone at the event what’s happening to strong women in county government these days and reiterated her very strong support of the very strong Serena as a means of combating this awful apparently new trend in Monmouth County. Well, new in the last couple of years. It also reminded me of a story I wrote for the Two River Times in December of 2014. It was the month before Atlantic Highlands Councilmembers Peter Doyle and Jack Archibald were being sworn in on borough council, and the ever vivacious, energetic, and friendly Kim showed that she is once such a great friend of the Bayshore and it was announced she was swearing the pair into office. Here’s the story from December, 2014.
Read MoreThis is a feature story I wrote for the Register of Red Bank on May 8, 1986. It’s amazing and unique for a number of reasons, not the least of which is it’s a story that no newspaper would print today without strict and political editing. For all those who were around in the 1980s, it’s a story about four great men, each well known in the Bayshore and respected in his own field, and all sharing a love of cooking
Read MoreThis is a story I wrote for the Atlantic Highlands Herald in 2016
Read MoreHere’s a story I did for some magazines when my grandson got married
Read MoreThis is one of the chapters from my book, Hidden Hisory of Monmouth County
Read MoreThis is a story I wrote for a women’s magazine 16 years ago. Perhaps it will bring back similar memories for you
Read MoreFrom August 5, 1964: Long Branch Daily Record Heap Hill, No one’s Responsibility By Muriel J. Smith (Daily Records Staff Correspondent) HIGHLANDS
Read MoreOne of my first History and Happenings columns when Editor Allan Dean invited me to start the column in the Atlantic Highlands Herald.
Read MoreAs I often say, everyone of my nine grandchildren makes me proud every day, and the joy I take from the variety of ways they continue to make me so proud is boundless. Today’s pride is in my youngest grandson, Angus Yeoman, son of Tracie and Chris, and a junior at the University of South Carolina. Like both his parents, Angus has selected the US Navy for his career, and like his mom, he’s beginning it with the Naval ROTC program at the same university. Not only am I proud that he made the Dean’s List….AGAIN!!!...but it was Angus, not his parents, who sent me the letter proving it. He knows what makes me happy! Cheers as well to Dean Samuels who recognizes how much more difficult college is for all students during the Covid-19 pandemic. Dear Angus, Congratulations on your academic performance in the Fall 2020 semester that earned a place on the Dean’s List at the College of Arts and Sciences. Your achievement represents not only excellence in the classroom but also perseverance in light of the myriad challenges presented by the COVID-19 pandemic. As a small token to recognize your efforts, I thought you might want to let your network celebrate your success by sharing this Dean’s List social media graphic. On behalf of the College of Arts and Sciences faculty and staff, I want to offer you best wishes for continued success. Congratulations again, Joel H. Samuels University of South Carolina Interim Dean, College of Arts and Sciences
Read MoreYou know you are going to hear about all my grandchildren so long as you keep reading Veni, Vidi, Scripto, and how proud I am of each, but it's true, Angus is rather extraordinary! Tracie and Chris'ss on, and the youngest of my nine grandchildren, he's following in their footsteps and is currently in ROTC at the University fo South Carolina...yep, he's a Gamecock, like many other New Jerseyans.... But he's also a surfer, and while it's a sport I always felt was more for the long-haired, self-centered young adult, Angus has truly taught me you can be a Gamecock honor student and a Naval collegian, while at the same time relax and take care of yourself mentally and physically with the art and science of surfing. So when it came time for him to make a presentation for his philosophy class, I really wasn't surprised when he chose to highlight all the benefits of surfing. It's without his permission, but here is his presentation, and hopefully, others can learn as I have how great surfing is for any number of reasons.
Read MoreI could brag every day about everyone of my nine grandchildren and the good news is it is because of different talents, different reasons, different personalities, different energies. But they are all the same in their always wanting to improve, to do something different, to be somebody better. So in this column I want to brag about Jason McNamee. Jason’s my oldest grandchild, born when I was far too young to be a grandma. But his mom was a Marine and in Japan when she called to give us the news. The Corps being what it is, Michelle still had her obligations…the Marine Corps did not issue Jason!...so it was several months before we got to see him, hold him and spoil him. Through the years, Jason grew, learned, loved his siblings and cousins, and eventually went to work for an airlines, a job he still holds. But now, he’s added something else to his repertoire! Jason is now an agent for Disney trips, cruises, all-inclusive resorts and not sure what else. But it’s a lot. He got his training through both Disney and Universal Studios, so he can do everything from booking resorts and tickets, to making dinner reservations, spa appointments, even tee times and ground transportation. He said he’s doing this because of the travel he and Melissa and their kids have done, travel that showed them they really like the personal attention, knowledge, and tips and suggestions of professionals when they’re away from home. In this job, which is in addition to the airline work out of Philadelphia Airport, Jason said after he books trips, he monitors all the last minute deals offered for the area where he’s booked someone, then alerts them to more possibilities. The new opportunity has also changed Jason, I can tell! Never the most talkative or outgoing of all the grands….that in itself is something to admire and brag about sometimes!... Jason now talks about the best places for honeymooners to go for romance, or excitement, or relaxation; he ticks off the unusual places for college kids to go on break, or for families to visit. Whether they like Disney World or the Caribbean. https://www.facebook.com/TravelbyJasonwithJustaDreamAwayTravel My oldest grandson also said that after 20 years in the aviation field, he has learned how vital it is to pay attention to the smallest details. And that’s why he feels his Travel by Jason with Just a Dream Away Travel will be successful, not only for him, but for everyone who books or plans through him. Don’t take my word for it. Contact him at jasonmsmith733@gmail.com, If you do, tell him his Granny said he better make you feel important and special. Am I proud of Jason? Of course. He’s in his late 30s, successful in aviation, married to a wonderful wife with two very special children. And still he want to do more and make others happy. That’s the best way to look at life!
Read MoreFour years ago, I made my first trip to Cuba with a friend of mine, Catherine Curtin, her parents and another Red Bank Catholic High School student and her mom. We went back the following year as well. I knew then how sharp and vitally interested in helping others Catherine is. Well, actually, I know she inherits it from her parents, Tricia and Dan, who volunteer untold hours, efforts and money to keep the Our Lady of Perpetual Help Food Pantry running as great as it does. But seeing Catherine and her friend in Cuba, seeing how they interacted with teens they never met before, and whose language they could only speak with high school expertise, I knew she had something special. Catherine had designed GUEST, Girls Universal Empowerment Sports Tour, a goodwill ambassadorship program that uses sports to make a difference in third-world countries. Since she played volleyball, Catherine used that sport as a way to empower young girls on the premise if you can reach someone through sports you can impact them in other ways too. She selected Cuba for the program since it is largely poor as well as being a close neighbor so the commitment could be ongoing. Currently, while the Gamecock Junior maintains the relationships in Cuba she made on the two trips, the program is on hold until after college graduation. I’ll write about that trip to Cuba in another future travel blog, but suffice it to say, Catherine showed her premise works, and warm friendships were formed and kept because of her GUEST ideas. So now that she’s a junior at the University of South Carolina, it didn’t come as any surprise to me that she was just selected an Ambassador of the College of Hospitality, Retail and Sport Management (HRSM) for her excellence in both her work and a personal interview for the position. HRSM ambassadors represent the College and assist with the planning and staffing of many college events including conferences, alumni, and recruiting. Recognized as star students, the ambassadors serve as brand champions for the college and share information to help other students and visitors learn more about all that HRSM has to offer. In announcing the college’s selection, Collin Crick, Director of Enrollment Management and Professional Development, wrote it was Curtin’s enthusiasm for her major, the College of HRSM, and the University of South Carolina itself that was recognized and appreciated. A graduate of Oak Hill Academy in Lincroft and Red Bank Catholic High School, Class of 2018, Catherine was on the National Honor Society, a Casey Ambassador at the high school and also co-captain of the varsity volleyball team. Curtin is also a member of Alpha Delta Pi sorority.
Read MoreWhen you love your children and grandchildren, there are any number of things that make you proud and happy…..the first tooth or first step as a baby, the first tearful goodbys as they head off to kindergarten, the medal for cheerleading or Pop Warner, the scout medals and awards, the A+ in English on the report card. The proud military service, the college degrees, the singular achievements at various kinds of work. Then the grandchildren and everything they do. When you really really love them, you can take pride in other things that most people wouldn’t even talk about. That’s why Brandon fills my heart with pride. In a story too long and painful to repeat, Brandon was in 8th grade at Our Lady of Perpetual Help when powers that be, both in Highlands where they offered no help at all and in Wisconsin where the liberal courts always think the mother, regardless of her alcohol or drug habits, is the better parent, he ended up living in Wisconsin. Prayers and court actions couldn’t change anything, and Brandon spent uncountable months during his teen years in juvenile detention centers. He ‘graduated’ to real prison shortly after he turned 18, his drug habits and accompanying crimes associated with it now a very real part of his life. He spent the next ten years in and out of prison, always promising his dad and me who always wrote him that he’d do better, he’d be better, those days were behind him. Until he got out. And when he couldn’t find a job, had no support, had to stay in Wisconsin during parole, and sired a couple of kids, it was through drugs where he could make money. So he did. Until he was caught again. This time, it was a five year sentence which included, because he loved them wildly, the added pain and punishment of knowing he was not even close to being a role model for those young children. So now he’s back in prison and once again, Brandon says he’ll be better. Only this time, I believe him. This time, he’s taking positive steps. He’s listening to his dad. He’s talking with him on the phone and he’s writing him letters. The letters are heartbreaking in their honesty, scary in his descriptions of prison life, agonizing in the lonesomeness he feels and expresses. But, it has shown me he has inherited that gift of writing from his dad, the gift his dad inherited from me, the one I inherited from my father. There’s no doubt Brandon can write. So he does. He pours out his heart to his father in handwritten letters on pieces of paper he manages to secure in prison. And his father has started a blog to let other prisoners and their families know there is hope, there is help for a convict who has the support of his family. There is a chance at a better and successful life even if it’s only started when you’re thirty something. That’s what makes me proud. I’m proud my son still has faith in his son, still has a prideful recognition of Brandon’s writing talent, proud he is taking the extra steps to release his letters both to and from Brandon in the hopes of helping both Brandon and all who read the blog. Here are a father and son who love each other, love those adorable little babies of Brandon’s and have confidence that yes, indeed, this time it’s going to be better. If you want to see Brandon’s blog, visit https://a-parent-in-prison.blogspot.com/
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